how do you know u spoil your kid TOO MUCH?
My daughter is spoiled gets it all not cause she asks cause I want her to. She has so much clothes, she never will wear same outfit twice in a month because I don't do tht for myself so I treat her as I am. She's two now n she grabs things and her dad buys them, I am not one to allow my child to scream or whine period let alone over a thing she wants. I dnt spoil her by gettin what she wants when she wants but daddy does. My question is how do u know a kid is spoiled? My daughter is well behaved. Neat cleans up, has manners etc...
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Another problem we ran into with buying her a ton of toys and stuff is she doesn't understand the value of anything...she has like 10 baby dolls, so if one breaks, she just moves onto the next without caring. And its so much stuff, its a war to clean up. I eventually had to take most of her toys away and she's the only grandchild on both sides, so we had to set spending limits for birthdays and christmas, so she's not a demanding brat.
So while 2 is too little to show the effects of spoiling, its a lot more arguing to get the "I need it now" habit broken later, than it is to listen to a short temper tantrum right now.
I say;
tantrums if u say no
Expecting the best
No manners
Has so much they get bored
Ruin things with no remorse.... what else?
i have friends who hav toys from years past cause they say there kids throw fits.. so the younger you start the better they are about it. and it teaches them sharing and gives you an opprotunity to tell them how oroud you are of them.. and if they dont want to you can always
tell them you cant get them anything till they hav room lol
tantrums excessively
throwing things whenthey don't get their way