cant deal with my mother

joli29joli29
edited January 2011 in Pregnant
Help! I'm pregnant with my third child. My husband and I weren't planning it but we're excited. My mother has nothing but negative things to say from we shouldn't have it to her favorite one: I can't believe you are having another kid. She tells me this everyday. I am beyond ready to cut her out of my life. I have already told her to stop the rude comments. I can't take much more. What do I do?

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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
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  • joli29joli29
    Thanks! I'm trying! Lol.
  • Mami_Ika3Mami_Ika3
    My parents are the same nothing but negative comment she say are you sure after 6 yrs. Ummm der I didn't get pregnant for no reason. I'm married 8yrs together 11yrs with two kids you ask that meanwhile she has 4 kids of her own & my dad in total has 7 wtf I tell them cause they piss me off. I'm moved an hr away from them to keep away. I love them but can't take the stress.
  • lilone26lilone26
    My mom hasn't been exactly supportive. She never wants to talk about it but she doesn't want me to tell anyone about it till I'm at least 10 weeks though she would prefer I didnt say anything til my second trimester. And here i am having no one to talk to about the emotions im going thru or the excitement or nervousness im feeling. i know it was a shock but its a baby she should be excited especially since she doesnt get to see my sister's kids.
  • joli29joli29
    Why can't they atleast act like they're excited to our faces? I have enough conplications without her adding to them!
  • ericazekendanericazekendan
    My mom was dissapointed. Very dissapointed. Im only 17 which is why. Sometimes all she does is nag nag nag me. And I hate it because my emotions are all crazy right now and everytime she does that I just wanna cry! Haha I hate it cause I still live with her and she wont let me live at my boyfriends house.
  • joli29joli29
    I know, I cry over everything.
  • mammanoucheemammanouchee
    Same here, when i told them, they just wanted money money money. Money from my husband. They are no where near being supportive. I buy food for the house and do everything but they just dont care. Me and my husband are so tired of them. We are on our own. but still wants money. But just ignore her. maybe she has something thats bothering her so thats why she is like that.
  • Maranda3Maranda3
    If shes anything like my mom I feel bad for you. I would have to tell that I'm going to stop talking to her until she can learn to respect my choices and feelings. Then she may come around in a few days. Good luck to you.
  • joli29joli29
    Thanks! I guess she has 9 months to come around. Lol
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