Don't worry it gets better. I was 16 when I had my first and not only were people at school mean but my family was not happy and I felt bad then. But if you want to know how to Chang all that it is to be the best mom you could be,that's what I did and it change everyone' s outlook on me being a teen mom. Im now 21 married to my my kids father,and having our third baby. We have our own home and take care of our kids and I never though I would be where I am. So keep your head up and be the best mom you can be and things will get better.
i don't get why teens, peers, adults whoever are rude to teen moms. i get that it's not ideal to get preg as a teen. i am sure the majority of them didn't think it was. but dang, they didnt abort the baby, there's some credit. they are going to endure more than other people who didnt get pregnant as a teen. they need support to get through the most difficult time in their lives. i was 18 with my first, but at least i had just graduated! let's not forget that the majority of the others' in their "class" are having sex, they just have gotten pregnant....yet.
@cfa that makes me feel alot better because people are telling me my relationship with the father isn't going to last and I think we will because I want to be wIth him and he is excited about our baby! I really hope I'm a great mother too! @survivormommie3 thats what I was thinking can't people just respect that I didn't get an abortion!
A good friend of mine had 2 babies before we graduated hs. I had had sex too and just didn't get pregnant. She wasn't a good person. You on the other hand sound like you want whats good for your baby. It was hard for me at 21. I commend you at 16 for enduring the hard time you're tecieving. My best wishes are w you. Ask to get put on home schooling if they get to out of control. You're Dr can actually recommend it.
People at school don't know what they're talking about.they just like to talk shit.most of them are probably in a shitty situation and them talking about others is the only way to boost their self esteem. Don't worry about what they say.at least you're still with the father and he's happy.most of them are probably single anyway.
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let's not forget that the majority of the others' in their "class" are having sex, they just have gotten pregnant....yet.
@survivormommie3 thats what I was thinking can't people just respect that I didn't get an abortion!