idk what to do???? ( VENTING)

blackdoll80blackdoll80
edited May 2011 in Pregnant
Met my chil'd father in Nov. and I got pregnant in Jan. everything was good until he heard I was pregnant. It went from I'm here 4 you to idk if it's my baby....(really) he knows what type of female I am I don't play games with Men or myself at all...Besides that I fell in love with him I barely talk to him and when we do it thru text! I have a guy friend that was ther before him and still is here for me (NO) I'm not having sex with him but, I know my heart is still with my son father which will be here in 4 more months....What should I do?????

Comments

  • Mommyof4girlsMommyof4girls
    Do you! If bd isn't doing his job then you have every right to find comfort in the new/old guy. Some guys are just still really just boys. You need and deserve a man. Good luck and sometimes things work out when we least expect them too.
  • blackdoll80blackdoll80
    Thanks ! I have been trying to tell myself that!
  • marriedwith_4marriedwith_4
    Men r such assholes. Yes I agree do u, if he want a test let him pay for it. If he don't wanna come around screw him. Make sure u file for support don't let him off the hook. If he decides he wanna man up n be with u fine but don't sit around n wait on him to grow up!
    I have a lot of male friends n my hubby is comfortable with that.
  • blackdoll80blackdoll80
    I will put support on him because my son didn't ask for this. Thanks For ur Advice
  • blissmarie23blissmarie23
    I agree with marriedwith_4 if he's man enough to sleep.with you. He should be man enough to be a daddy. He's defunantly obligated to take care of his children or else he shouldn't be sleeping with people.
  • Jess8D7Jess8D7
    Amen to @blissmarie23
  • MybabeMybabe
    I agree with everyonei hope everything works out for you!!!
  • hurstk28hurstk28
    When you go for support they will require a dna test. When it comes back he is the father he will have to pay for the test. Go ahead and get the paperwork started now to take him to court.
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