Feeling so down

AsRealAsItGetsAsRealAsItGets
edited June 2011 in First time moms
So I'm pregnant, I didn't tell anyone yet except for the father of my child I'm only two months but me & him was together for a year we just broke up because I'm keeping the baby which I feel is sad but it seems like I'm always crying now, I cry myself to sleep sometimes, I just need advice on how to get thru this, I have a long time til this baby come I'm due Jan 23

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  • Chuieycuzca22Chuieycuzca22
    As someone who has suffered depression most of her life, the first thing I would tell you is to lean on those that support you. If you have friends or family to turn to do it. If you truly feel you need more help there is also counseling. Don't try to do this alone. Regardless of baby daddy, you need to take care of you and baby. Things will be ok. I raised my first son alone and will most likely be doing the same with this one. It is hard but I have good family for support. You can get through this. We here on pregly are here to talk too. :)
  • AsRealAsItGetsAsRealAsItGets
    @chuieycuzca22 thank you, I still have to find a way to tell my family, they're pretty kool but I'm only 20 ill be 21 n Aug
  • MybabeMybabe
    Hey just hold on its the beginning it can get better!!! He may sit back and think about it then come around I was in your shoes first trimester ... its hard but you will get stronger
  • Chuieycuzca22Chuieycuzca22
    It is scary I know. With my 1st son I was 22 and married and I was STILL scared to tell my family. They love you though so even if they are concerned at first they will be there. With this baby I thought for sure my mom would disown me (and I'm 33 now!) But she surprised me and has been great. She doesn't like the circumstances but has been a huge help. It will be ok but try not to stress too much cause it is hard on the baby. Just keep in mind you got a beautiful miracle growing inside of you. :)
  • AsRealAsItGetsAsRealAsItGets
    @mybabe i sure hope it does get better, and the father is just so selfish and worried about materialistic things
  • MybabeMybabe
    So is my bd but I realize he will be a financial father don't get me wrong he will be great!!! It just take a lot of compromising and if he if is stubborn like mine more compromising on your end LOL!!! Just give him time to cool down and you relax and think about what you really want and then try talking to him again. .. keep me posted!!!
  • MybabeMybabe
    So is my bd but I realize he will be a financial father don't get me wrong he will be great!!! It just take a lot of compromising and if he if is stubborn like mine more compromising on your end LOL!!! Just give him time to cool down and you relax and think about what you really want and then try talking to him again. .. keep me posted!!!
  • AsRealAsItGetsAsRealAsItGets
    Aww thanks and I think I have the most stubborn bd ever LOL he goin tell me I'm forcing him to be a father again he already has a 5yr old son but Watever and ill keep you posted
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