No one will be lifting up my shirt this time lol I have stretch marks from my son plus tons of horrible bruises and needle marks from lovenox. I had one friend try to in the middle of a restaurant and I said heck no! @excitedforoctober I guess we're all different because I'm not a touchy feely person to start with and I'm incredibly suspicious of strangers. I just always have been so there's no way they're touching me. Now when it comes to my mom, mil, oh and grandma, they can touch and talk away. I think its cute :-)
So far I've only had friends and relatives touch my belly. I invite them to touch my belly because I'm the only pregnant woman in my family and group of friends and I know they're just excited and want to feel. One of my best friends got to feel the baby kick! That was pretty neat My husband actually got to see my belly move last night!
But having someone who I hardly know or a stranger touch my belly would freak me out especially if they didn't ask
I agree with the majority of you ladies if its friends or family it's cool except my cousin who just wants to stand there rubbing my belly the entire time she's with me I just can't take that lol I just didn't like my top being lifted in public and being kissed by a woman that isn't even related to me lol it was just weird.
Omg I kno exactly how u feel my bfs little cuzin always tries to kiss my stomach and it is so annoying like 1st of all u irk me to no end 2nd of all who says I wnt ur lips on my stomach or ne part of my clothing...n to make it worse she's been calln my bf her son since she was a baby (she's now 9) so she calls my son her grandson...umm hello ur not evn old enough to make a damn baby tlkn bout grandson...sorry to cum on ur post n go semi crazy but jus thnkn bout this little girl makes me mad...lol
@mom60511 my daughter does the same thng when ppl ask so hows the baby if she's around she will lift up my shirt & say baby while poking my bellybotton
Im ok with people touching my belly to a certain extent but their is a particular person in my husbands family that would literally hurt me she would go up to me and shake my belly and say "wake up baby move" i had to tell her to stop cause she would do it every time i saw her...:o
In addition: why are the pregnant women considered the rude ones? We aren't the ones touching random people without permission. If I ask someone to not touch me, I don't think I'm being rude. The person who gets offended because I ask them to stop touching me, which they started to do without permission, is the one who is being rude...IMHO.
I really don't mind when people touch my belly but there is this co worker (who I'm not even close to ) that puts her mouth to my belly and talks to my baby she has done that twice the second time she went so far as kissing it in front of other co workers. I wanted to die.
@shaniam I completely agree with you. I mean if we weren't pregnant and someone did that they'd get slapped lol everyone is different and I don't think you should ever touch anyone without their permission that's just rude. @marabel that's crazy I'm not sure what I would do in that situation. Why would anyone do that gee
OMG! All of this is freaking me out! My husband has already threatened bodily harm to anyone who dares randomly touch me. But I think that only applies to strangers. I have a bad feeling that I'm on my own when it comes to family. I also hate when people say "How's MY baby?" to me. Why don't you take this hypermesis then it can be your baby? Until then, unless you're my husband its not your fing baby! Aarrrgh!
I don't really like it when people touch me anyway but when my husbands male friends pat my belly it really freaks me out like bad...and my girlfriends are always touching my belly but its amazing how many of them want to lift my shirt up to see it! Weird!
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@excitedforoctober I guess we're all different because I'm not a touchy feely person to start with and I'm incredibly suspicious of strangers. I just always have been so there's no way they're touching me. Now when it comes to my mom, mil, oh and grandma, they can touch and talk away. I think its cute :-)
i hate people touching my belly. I'm Not really a touchy feely type person. Unless I offer a quick rub of the tummy keep your paws off!!!
But having someone who I hardly know or a stranger touch my belly would freak me out especially if they didn't ask