I LOST MY BABY ;( BUT WE STILL WANA TRY...

babysoloriobabysolorio
edited June 2011 in Pregnant
My babys heart stopped beating & i lost him... They did a d&c 9 days ago... I only bleed for that day & by the evening i stopped... The Doc said no sex for 5 days... Please don't judge cuz we're goin threw lot... But on the 5th day we had sex... My fiance try his best to make me feel beautiful & doesn't want me to feel less of myself... On the 6th day we had sex again... I was cramping that day& i started spotting... The day after was my follow up with my doc... He said i was probably gone start my period cuz ive healed very well & was good to go... He told me & my fiance that there is no need to wait any ling & that we can start trying to conceive now... the following day i woke up to blotting, cramping & bleeding... I told my doc i started my period & he gave me a list of days to be intimate... But by that evening mu bleeding stopped & Im only spotting... Was it not a period.. We really want to begin tryin ti conceive right away... Im 36 & Im not getting younger... What can i do to make it easier to conceive & is it true that ur more fertile after a miscarriage...

Comments

  • Jaime77Jaime77
    They say you are. I'm so sorry you lost your baby! I will pray you conceive quickly, bc I know your concerned about your age, ect.. %%-
  • BensMamaBensMama
    I'm so sorry you lost your baby! I would use ovulation tests so you have a good idea of when you ovulate. I've always heard that having sex every other day gives you the best shot, but the ov tests would help you know when exactly it's going to happen. I'd say combine the two - sex every other day and start taking the ov tests now (buy a box of 20 so you don't run out and I prefer digi cuz no guessing), when you get your positive test have sex that day, the next, and the following. That's worked for me in the past, of course you never know. Hope that helps and good luck!! I hope you get another BFP asap!
  • newmommie1014newmommie1014
    I know how hard it is. And its really good that your body is healing so well. But your body will know when its ready to carry a beautiful healthy baby. Give your self the time and let your body do what it is meant to do. But I also agree with the ovulatiob test they tell you when is the best time rather than just guessing. But im really sorry about your loss. I went through a D&C.but I went through days I would bleed than stop than start. So try and wait for a true period. (If that makes sense) than start fresh with the ovulation test. I hope that helps and again I am really sorry for your loss.
  • mrs_wainrightmrs_wainright
    I have no clue how stuff like that works. I'm very sorry for your loss girl
  • tbaby2011tbaby2011
    I am sorry for your loss but my hubby and I conceived very easy shortly after we lost our son I lost him oct 27, 2010 and we conceived beginning of dec now due in sept so if you are both ready just try. Hood luck and I am sending some sticky baby dust your way!!! :)
  • tbaby2011tbaby2011
    * good
  • Cait_SeptemberMommyCait_SeptemberMommy
    My husband and I lost our first baby in Aug 2010, but I miscarried naturally and I didn't get my period for a couple weeks after it happened. I had my first period in September. We started trying again in October, and we conceived again in December, and now my baby girl is due in September. It will happen for you! Something that helped me, and I think is a big part of the reason why we got pregnant again, is that I let go of what happened. I had come to terms with it and not let it consume my mind all of the time. I used to wear an angel necklace, and in November I took it off which helped me heal and in December we were pregnant!
  • BlessedMommyBlessedMommy
    I'm sorry for your loss I also had a m/c Back in October 28 of last yr my babys heart stopped beating at 10 weeks I also had a dnc that same day...my doctor didn't want me to have sex till about 4 months later I didn't wait and was pregnant again I conceived around the first week of November of last yr so I would say yes you are very fertile after a miscarriage...good luck with trying :)
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