are any of your men turned off by your pregnancy?

momma_tiffaymomma_tiffay
edited June 2011 in Second Trimester
Had a talk with my husband today, because our sex life has been odd. Our intimiate life has decreased quite a bit, & even when we do a lot of the time I just don't feel like he's into it... so I asked why? He said pregnancy pretty much kills his mood, because I either get crampy afterwards & sometimes I get that disgusting sexual spotting associated with pregnancy.


-- What can I do to decrease liklieness of both of these unfortunate but common consequences of sex during pregnancy?

-- & how can I look & feel sexy during pregnancy? Self confidence is always a boost for desire right?


I know sex isn't suppossed to be a big deal, but it was always a big part of our relationship until recently. I just want my intimate life back, wah!

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  • adriansmommyadriansmommy
    my man is actually turned on by it lol...but to make myself feel sexy i give myself manicures n pedicures, do my hair nice and even put make up on, when u feel sexy u look sexy!! i kno its hard to feel sexy when ur huge trust me i have a lot of insecure moments not, but that always helps me, its so nice outside put on a pretty sundress and paint ur nails a bright color!! =] hubby will come around =]
  • babynum2andproudbabynum2andproud
    Mine is scared he is gonna damage my son he is crazy i try to explain it to him but he still doesn't give it up often enough so i totally understand what Ur saying
  • jcmommyjcmommy
    I actually get hit on a lot by strangers but my husband told me yesterday that he's been checking out other girls now that I'm bigger. Jerk yes. We've always been very open with each other. He tells me who is cute, and so do I. But it sort of hurt my feelings a bit. It makes me more determine to be skinny again!
  • vtmamajujuvtmamajuju
    My hubby is turned on by it, but my preg friend's hubby is completely turned off. Im not sure why its so different. I don't have any advice, just thought I'd let you know there's others in the same boat.
  • ExcitedForOctoberExcitedForOctober
    My bf finds it "weird" to have sex bcuz there is a "baby inside me" lol
  • firsttimerfirsttimer
    my hubby is always like..its good for the baby to have sex..lately he's been really in the mood..TMI..but yesterday out of the blue he came 3 times..he's usually a 1 nutter type of guy..i have no complaints. but one type, i'm always changing myself like hair..and he loves makeup so i always wear makeup (except to bed)..suprise him one day, change it up!
  • mamii2bemamii2be
    Try getting some lingerie I just buy it in a larger size or taking some sexy pics & sendin it to him while he's not w/ you I kind of don't even wana have sex now im 40 weeks 5 days but up until about 8 months it was pretty much a necessity for both of us lol.
  • dawtalovedawtalove
    My hubby loves all of extra thickness. He actually can't keep his hands off of me! ;;)
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