Just need to vent..

My job let me go and my unemployment ran out, my bf has been supporting me but its been hard since he's taken on my bills. Now his mom came over a little bit ago and says she needs $900 to pay her rent or she's going to get evicted, its already hard on us and now I have to worry about taking care of our growing family and his? I know hes stressed and now I just feel like I'm a burden. Its just really not how I pictured having my first baby.

Comments

  • Things don't always go as planned. Maybe mom can stay with someone or you guys. She could be a help. If you have no $$$ to give her don't give it out. Or maybe other family can help.
  • Were her only option, I said she can live with us but its not just her, its her sister, mother, and 9 year old daughter. Lots of people for a small space. Thanks for giving advice, it really means a lot to me
  • That's a really tough call. I would try to see if you guys could get away with giving her half? Is there some unforseen reason she doesn't have the money to begin with? I know family issues can be hard to deal with. Or have her promise to pay the full about back. I'm sure she would understand that you guys are having a hard time too and need the $$ just as bad. I wish I could be of more help. Chin up hon!
  • *amount (sorry)
  • @somastar she had a business but it fell through so she's been having a hard time finding a job, I just wish she would come to us sooner so we could work with her but she waits for the last minute. I just feel like this is the time to focus on the baby, I'm 32 weeks but I understand its his family and we can't tell her no. thank you so much!
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