He said he hopes my baby dies. I am so crushed. Because I told him to stop disrespecting me. I am almost in tears. It really hurt me. He says I'm gonna do what I want.
Wow, I know people are gonna say a lot of mushy stuff and that maybe he feels left out etc. Honestly, I would've slapped the tase out his mout for disrespecting me. (If he's over 10 yrs old) I don't believe in beating but my child does get spanked, very rarely but that's too much. Is he usually disresctful or is this a new behavior?
My brother told me that. I don't have a good relationship with my parents, and now him, but because I called my mother ignorant, (she doesn't like my fiance cuz hes black) he said "I hope your f*ckn kid dies before it turns 5." Needless to say I've cut my whole family off completely. I feel your pain. I told my mother that I was going to hunt my brother down, and put his ass in the hospital. I'm not playing either. They're lucky they're still stationed overseas.
Im sorry love, but he may just be acting out in jealousy. Kids don't always understand just how harsh their innocent words can be. Me sons have done the same. It will get better once the baby is here and he gets used to him/her... in the meantime try to spend as much time with him as possible and when the baby comes be sure to devote time solely to him so he doesn't feel "abandoned ". How old is he?
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