¿?BD wants his mother to pick the name¿?

First_tymeFirst_tyme
edited June 2011 in Pregnant
at First I didn't have a problem with it untill she was giving some names....i was like oh no she can't pick my child name. I'm having a boy and she is coming up with some girl names n then the rest are just horrible. Then the names I pick she have something negetive to say about them.....I don't want to be disrespectful but I am really close to saying something to that lady.am I wrong for not wanting her to pick the name.
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  • SurpriseBabySurpriseBaby
    Hell no girl!! I would not let anybody pick the name without some sort of approval atleast! Especially if you hate the name. I would tell them she can help but you (& your bd) have the last say. Good luck!
  • Proudmommy8789Proudmommy8789
    no your not! Its your kid not hers and just because she the gma doesnt mean anything!
  • DiverwfeDiverwfe
    Oh hell no that's not her kid its yours she's doesn't need a say what you name your baby is a decision between you and the father I wouldn't let her have a say
  • blueberrysmomblueberrysmom
    Ummm... HELL NO!
  • Mrz_JacksonMrz_Jackson
    I agree wit everyone else none of the grandparents or family like my daughter or my sons name or this baby I'm preg wit all I say is o well ya will get ovr it ! ;)
  • valentinasmommyvalentinasmommy
    I wouldn't even let my mom pick the name.only me.bf can have suggestions but I'm the one that picks it.
  • lae3lae3
    def not the only thing she should be picking out is stuff shes getting for him.. and a pet name or nick name she will give him.. thats just asurd and somewhat rude of her to expect you to allow somthing so personal go.. listen to what she has to say but do whatvyou want and forget about hurt feelings.. nothing needs to be said she will get over it anyways.. she has to lol
  • natashalynnnatashalynn
    She had her chance to name children. It's your turn!!!
  • First_tymeFirst_tyme
    @ta2edblondie yes this is my first
    @SupriseBaby I told my bd that and he said its all me that I just don't want her to pick the name and I'm acting very immature
    @Proudmommy8789 lol we think excately alike
    @Diverwfe I tried telling him that and we get into an agrument about it everytime he feel like she deserve a say so ugh it ticks me off everytime
    @blueberrysmom lol ikr
    @Mrz_Jackson2anpreggo ya I think I need to stop thinking about what makes everyone else happy and think about me and my little prince
  • Mommie_McAteeMommie_McAtee
    s m h she wanna name someone tell he go have sex and get pregnant and if he. wants her to name his child so bad tell them to have sex with each other. my baby daddy better not say nothing like that I'd reach back so far and slap him up side his head
  • SmgibbsSmgibbs
    Its Your child not hers why would she pick the name??
  • kayleigh27kayleigh27
    I agree it's your child. Tell your husband that and that you and him need to nme him. His mother has nothing to do with it and should understand that
  • PumpkinCupcake0307PumpkinCupcake0307
    Its your baby not hers, you should choose it!
  • vette_devilvette_devil
    Defffffinitely agree!!! She got to name her own children already; this one is yours & your choice. I would never, ever, evvvver let my MIL pick the name; thank goodness my husband agrees!!!
  • rckprincess2rckprincess2
    She had had her time, its urs and bd turn now. Suggestions r okay but I wouldn't let any one except my dh and I pick it out. Course now they r throwing hissy fits over nicknames but idc lol. Don't Let her ruin this for the two of u
  • First_tymeFirst_tyme
    Lol thanks everyone because both him and his mother is stuborn I think im just going to pick the name myself
  • Jaime77Jaime77
    Don't feel the pressure to give in! I let my ex pick all 3 kids names, and now I did it again for this baby!! I don't care for Jaden bc its so popular, I wanted Adam or Colin lol oh well, i'm calling him Jay. Remember your most likely the one who has to say her name constantly ;)
  • LouisesfirstbabaLouisesfirstbaba
    At the end of the day, it will be u going to register ur baby, not her so even if she picked a name out, dont mean its going on the birth certificate! its upto u and bd :D
  • myasmommy2009myasmommy2009
    YOU push that baby out or get the csection, YOU and your husband made the baby together she wasnt there and she doesnt have a say. Maybe try to tell your bd, since she wasnt in the room when we made the baby, she doesnt need to name it. I am all for her putting in possible suggestions, but there is no way you need to pick the name.she chooses. You fill out the birth certificate so in the end its all what you want anyways. Good luck!
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  • 08lilmomma1108lilmomma11
    Ummm I definately would not let that happen! Then again..today will be only the second time I have "met" his mother..pray that goes well.
  • First_tymeFirst_tyme
    @08lilmomma11 lol good luck sweetie
  • 08lilmomma1108lilmomma11
    It went well. :) his mom and my mom got along great! Thank god
  • lilbabythreelilbabythree
    She had her chance to pick out names that is why ur bd got his name. U pick ur childs name. If she wants to pick out names that is fine...she should go get pregnant then she can name the child. If she wants to make suggestions that is fine u can listen and let them go too.
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  • First_tymeFirst_tyme
    Thanks everyone you guys had me rofl at every post. You all got as defensive as I did lol I luv u all what will I do without my preglys
  • misselfaemisselfae
    Thats crazy! She named her boy so tough if she now loves other ones. Its your baby!! My mil suggests names everytime I see her and I disregard them right away. Some have been pretty but im not having her think she picked the name! Good luck. Remember by time they get there to see baby he will already have a name and they cant do a thing about it. And tell that bf of yours to man up!
  • First_tymeFirst_tyme
    @misselface lol I know right I tell him that all the time he a mama boy n it's gets on my nerves
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    i would never let my mil name my baby. id slap my bf for even suggesting it. haha
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