braxton hicks contraction question

edited June 2011 in Third Trimester
im not sure if im experiencing BH contractions or is it just the baby baling up or something it gets really hard for a few seconds ad then it goes away!! wat is that??? oh and one more thing am i the only one that hasnt had my bf at any of my appoint., im 31 weeks now and im kinda upset feeling like he dosnt care sometimes :-(

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  • im not sure about the BH i feel my stomach getting tight too and i dont think it's the baby (39 weeks here).. sometimes my bf can't go to the appointments either but it's cus he has to work.. does ur bf have a good excuse?? cus if not then he should be there
  • I'm not quit sure but I think those are bh by the way your not the only one whos boyfriend haven't gone to one appt my nd hasn't either
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  • Lol yes ma'am, those are bh contractions! I used to think it was the baby too, but definitely not... I'm 32 weeks and I've had them since I was about 14 wks
  • It's bh contractions, only time to get concerned is if they stay for a long period of time and get to where they are 6 minutes apart. But I get them all the time
  • I only feel mine in the lower, or upper, never the whole abdomen.

    I like the way the feel.
  • My ex never went to any of my appointments with our kids.. I'm thankful this time my bf has only missed 2
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  • @mommytob88 my bf goes to sum appts but not all but everytime he drop me off I ask him if he's stayn he says no n wen he does stay he waits n the waitn room which I dnt mind bn tht the doc only chcks his heartbeat and my weight...at my last appt I axd him if he was stayn he said no aftr sitn n the waitn room for a few mins he came up tht made me happy bcuz sumtimes I do feel sum typa way attending my appts alone...y hasn't he been to any appts
  • BH and the real Contx feel the same at first. They'll come every few mins, may hurt and last 30 secs to 1.5 mins. Your abdomin will tighten inside and outside and you should be able to touch or poke your belly and feel the hardness.

    If your having them and don't know if their BH or the real thing.

    1) Time them (download a contraction counter on your phone) you need to know how long they last, how, long between them and how long you've been having them.

    2)Drink 16 ounces of water to eliminate the possibility that your dehydrated.

    3) Empty your blatter ... sometimes a full blatter can cause BH

    4) change positions... if your laying down, go for a walk. If your moving around, sit or lay down and relax.

    If you've done all of these things and your still getting contx on a regular and their 3 mins apart for an hour.... its time to head to the hospital.

    And don't forget to post it... lol
  • @YNVTish and everyone else thanks for ur advice!!
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