Pregnant is like a disease, like marriage lol I swear after I got married I lost friends, then found out I was pregnant and lost some more! I pretty much just got my hubby and select family.
All the ppl I used to hang out wit drink n party...n they Wr mostly guys. My only good gf.....I haven't spoken to her in almost.2 weeks bc that day my fam had a bbq n the bd n sum of his fam came bc both of our fam haven't met Eachother....she was having issues wit her bd...same issues she always has( I posted advice about that one asking if I was in the wrong) n I couldnt tlk on the phone...i had guests over. She txt me that nite she was gna kill herself...n I knew it was bc of him. N she also txt me thanks for being a great friend, I appreciate it...sarcastically. Thas her...she can b rude. I txt her a big msg in response as to y she shouldn't do it n she nvr wb. Nxt day she was bck on fb posting pics of herself. Idk I guess I don't mind too much not having friends...but sometimes it sucks bc the bd n I needa do our own stuff sometimes n he has plenty of guy friends
@firsttymemommy ahhhh yes I def agree. No one calls me n e more bc I can't do shit n they all go out bar hopping n stuff...which I obviously can't due...I tried two wknds ago to go dancing. I felt like a sober dumbass...Hahaha.
@mrz_Jackson2npreggo awww I feel ya!!! I think my only good friend at the moment is my 18 yr old SIS n bd....wahhhh. lol. Which I don't mind but its nice to have other ppl to talk to
I'm sorry your feeling lonely and like you have no friends being preggo does kinda seem like a desease, everyone bails like there gonna catch it too lol. Maybe after baby comes, you can join a mommy and me group..? I plan on doing that so I don't feel lonely and can get support from other mommies since this is my frist just remember..you always have the ladies of preggly and we love ya!! Your not alone..just those damn hormones rearing there ugly head lol!
@momtob awww that was so sweet!!!! Yes I am most definitely thankful for all the pregly ladies who always keep me laughing, crying, n going thru mommy hood together. A mommy n me group is a great idea!!!!!!
@mgrose yeah ur right....I don't think ill b hitting up the clubs wit the same ppl after pregnancy if I decide I wna go out bc I now c that they weren't really true friends to begin wit!
I feel the same way. One of my friends told me she was jealous I was preggo (even though she and her bf ate no where near ready to start a family) so she doesn't talk to me anymore. I still have a few friends I see, but the rest has definatly dwindled. Makes me kinda sad. Doesn't help my best friend is on the other side of the country. Oh well, just makes me live and appreciate the ones I still have now.
all of my friends that dont have kids are too busy having a "normal" life and all my friends who have kids or are expecting are too busy with their little ones lol...i forgot what having friends feels like
@ Adri805 I feel ya , I live in Miami and before I was pregers , that's what my weekends consist of but when I got pregnant some of my friends were upset at me and as I got bigger all of my friends slowly stop inviting me anywhere , it sucks but I'm glad , because now it helps me realize who were really my friends, really gets lonely sometimes ,bd takes me out but he has a life too , mines just got put on pause .
@Adri805 I hear you I don't have any friends either like you mentioned in your comment before only good friend is my 15 yr old sister lol & sometimes I can be a bitch so she gets irritated sometime
i feeel the same way. i lst alot of my friends. majority of my friends area always getting drunk or partying or smoking weed. so i just hang out at home. clean cook sleep watch tv & hang out with my fiance once he gets off work. im pretty bored majority of the time.
@youngmami3@blessedmommy@babymamma18 I guess Thas y Wr r alllll on here I am currently in my hometown but live 45 min away. My bd stays wit me at my place but he hates it Wr I live bc its a small town as opposed to our hometown which is beautiful located right next to the beach. I don't blame him but Wn we come down I don't really do n e thing....I already have a 6 yr old which I take everywhere wit me unless she's wit her dads mom or sister for the wknd...so Wn we come down I'm still bored bc he can still go hang out wit his boys n drink or play video games or whatever the heck they do...like right now. He said he was going to give his friend a ride...well that was at least 2 n a half hours ago n I don't wna txt him to c wut he's up to bc I don't wna seem needy bc I don't have n e one to hang out wit.
Dido most of my friends disappeared then I got told its my fault I don't go visit them anymore. Even when I was on bed rest for a month and a half they couldn't even make it a point to come see me or call to see how I was unless they were drunk or had a problem. I gave up I don't even care to hang out with anyone anymore lol. Just my man and his family pretty much
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@mgrose yeah ur right....I don't think ill b hitting up the clubs wit the same ppl after pregnancy if I decide I wna go out bc I now c that they weren't really true friends to begin wit!
@carley Awwwww