ahh i cant plan a babyshower alone

edited June 2011 in September 2011
:( I'm freaking losing it no one is helping my bf just doest wanna deal with it anymore but its my first child

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  • I have to plan my own baby shower. i completely understand how stressful it can be =/ It really sucks.
  • Do u have any friends or close family members that can help u?
  • @rckprincess2 its like I'm planning a wedding I just wanna rent a place but my bf wants it to be by his grandmother which is like so much cleaning to do ugh
  • Maybe if u help her with it....that way she continues to plan and help and u can have some input and show her how much it means for her to help! ?
  • @tootie08 I got family but everyone is being cheap and my friends are to busy enjoying summer
  • Maybe hire someone? Or ask bf to do it and have a bunch of his friends over to help. Have like your guys fav foods and stuff. Like Free food if you work lol.
  • @Augustbaby I about to just have a lil something when the babies here or at my mom house with just my family I feel bad not really including his family but its easier to me
  • @rrckprincess2 I would hire someone but I got fired from my job alil while back so did he we are living on unemployment but he is def getting a job soon for now its hard to do anything :/
  • Well i mean it is your baby shower. If you are having to plan your own shower I'd say have it however and were ever you'd like. You could invite his family. If they don't show it's not like you told them they couldn't come.
  • @rrckprincess2 I would hire someone but I got fired from my job alil while back so did he we are living on unemployment but he is def getting a job soon for now its hard to do anything :/
  • Maybe a meet the baby party would be best? That gives everyone more time to be prepared and to set up a time and place to meet. My hubby isn't very involved with the registry (my cousin is doing my shower *whew!*) but I think that's just a guy thing. Maybe a female relative would be more excited and involved?
  • Tell him that...and if they want to be involved they can have a separate one for u!
  • @Victoriab so right my bf trys lol but he said its odd so to get him to help with the registry I tell him he gonna be pushing around a pink stroller lol you are def lucky I might check with some family its just not in me to ask but I have too@rrckprincess ur right I will see how that goes
  • @augstbaby I want everyone to know eachother cause we do plan to get married in like 2 yrs I wanted them to know each other but I'm sure things will work into place
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