Venting on fake friends nearly ruining my baby shower

edited June 2011 in Pregnant
So I had my baby shower yesterday. Although it went brilliantly and I enjoyed myself it was nearly ruined by selfish so called friends. My cousin organised it and she did a brilliant job, she even made a cute cake with a pregnant woman on top. Out of the 8 girlfriends that was invited only two came and those two are my closest friends and they wouldnt dream of letting me down. A couple the night before txt to say they couldnt make it with rubbish excuses. The rest nearly ruined the day with there selfishness. The shower started at 4.30. Me, my two friends, my dads girlfriend was there by that time, although my cousin, my.aunt and her friend was late coz of traffic they still came and we had a good time
Wat pissed me off was that we were waiting over an hour to start for these so called friends, they didnt even bother to.call or txt to say they couldnt come, thier selfishness nearly ruined my day. There I was calling and txting these heifers to see if they were coming coz we hadnt started coz we were waiting for them. None picked up. Or replied. Eventually around six one txt to say she couldnt make it and she had txt me earlier which was a lie. Another one txt at 8pm to say sorry she.didnt make it. And the one that I thought would show up for sure didnt pick up then txt near 7pm to say that she went to church and church ran late. I was so mad at her. I went to her baby shower even though I lived two hours away from her, I went to her birthday and her sons birthday, iv done So much for her, she said she was going to be there for sure amd she pulls a stunt like that. So now im not even bothering to talk to her, iv done so much to help her with a lot of stuff even money which she hasnt paid back. I seem to have crap luck with finding girl friends coz most of my good friends are.guys. Why are some women so condecending??

Comments

  • As long as u had a good time @ ur shower, u can't worry about other ppl nor can u control there actions. One thing I've learned about women over the years is to not trust them. I have the same 2 girls friend from almost 20 years ago. When I befriend someone new I never let her in n I'm proven to b correct she wasn't shit.
    Don't even bother to address there ass brush it off n that's pay back enough. U know now where u stand with those ladies
  • Thank you for your reply, u are so right. Im just gna concentrate on the positive things and the people that matter
  • @creamyapple I have a problem keeping girlfriends as well...not sure what the problem is...maybe its because im too real and a lot of people can't handle that!
  • Aww, that's sad. Some people are so selfish and it almost seems that people are losing compassion for others. Good thing you had a good time.
  • Thank you ladies I had a good time, the funny thing was that if I had invited my guy friends they wouldve made it extra special, one was making a joke that I shouldv invited him he wouldv wore a wig and a bra and pretended to b a woman lol
  • Thank you ladies I had a good time, the funny thing was that if I had invited my guy friends they wouldve made it extra special, one was making a joke that I shouldv invited him he wouldv wore a wig and a bra and pretended to b a woman lol
  • I'm sorry :( hope u got some goodies!
  • Good, true friends are hard to find but you only need a few. I am lucky to have a handful of close girlfriends cuz it feels like a lot girls are so fake and catty. At least you know now where your friendships really stand with the ones that flaked out. I would never ditch my good friend's baby shower and not be there when I said I would. How rude of them! o_O
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