so hurt. advice not pregnancy related
My boyfriend and I have been having a few problems lately. In the past couple weeks I've gotten really depressed and stressed over this pregnancy, while just the opposite for him; he's been in a mood to do whatever he wants whenever he wants.
Long story short. He knew my jerk ex, and knows how much I hated being with him and why. Well, today my current bf treated me EXACTLY how my ex would. He said some rude things, called me a b!tch countless times, and even proceeded to crack jokes about me and the situation when I gave him the silent treatment. (I was too hurt/verge of crying to say anything.)
Now I guess we are officially on a "break." But I want to consider breaking it off completely. I'm not going to relive the last relationship I had.
I've told him how much it hurts when he hurts me like that but he doesn't care. My last resort to get him to realize that he is no different from my ex at this point is to collect my things com his house and tell him flatly that he reminds me of my ex, and that I won't tolerate it.
My question is, basically.....those will be very harsh words spoken and will either make him more angry and pissed off, or make him do a 180° and realize who/what he has turned into since we found out I was pregnant. I'm prepared for either, but is it ammo I should use? I swear there is no other way...does anyone haves any input on what else to say or do?
Long story short. He knew my jerk ex, and knows how much I hated being with him and why. Well, today my current bf treated me EXACTLY how my ex would. He said some rude things, called me a b!tch countless times, and even proceeded to crack jokes about me and the situation when I gave him the silent treatment. (I was too hurt/verge of crying to say anything.)
Now I guess we are officially on a "break." But I want to consider breaking it off completely. I'm not going to relive the last relationship I had.
I've told him how much it hurts when he hurts me like that but he doesn't care. My last resort to get him to realize that he is no different from my ex at this point is to collect my things com his house and tell him flatly that he reminds me of my ex, and that I won't tolerate it.
My question is, basically.....those will be very harsh words spoken and will either make him more angry and pissed off, or make him do a 180° and realize who/what he has turned into since we found out I was pregnant. I'm prepared for either, but is it ammo I should use? I swear there is no other way...does anyone haves any input on what else to say or do?
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If it were me I'd take a couple days of time (no calls texts) nothing. Just U time. And then try to have a rational conversation with him. Tell him that u feel he's acting like ur ex and that u can't and wont live ur life like that. But try not to rush in hot headed. It will only make things worse.
It doesn't look so bad now reading it but trust me if you were there in my shoes....well. yeah. I'm crying right now just thinking about everything he said. He called me a b!tch so many times, and tried to drag me out of the car. Then had the nerve to ask for a kiss at the end.
Gather your things and be a lady and just leave. And you are 100% right if you know this is the point of no return dnt continue chasing him trying to make it work.
Leave while you still have your dignity. If he changes then great, if not you are gorgeous and cam find one that will.