IN A BADD SITUATION RITE NOW...ADVICE!
Iam 22 && pregnant w l my 2nd child..(16wksz) ...i live w l my mom && go to college full time for nursing (RN degree). My son is 20 months old..he is my life!! His biological father is not in da pic so its jus him && i. I hav a bf who ive been w l a lil ova a yr. Iam pregnant w l his bby now. He loves my son as if he were his. My mom is not for this pregnancy. ..At all! In fact she made me an appt to get an abortion tomorrow 
. I do not plan in going thru w l this. My mom told me if i hav dis bby...i hav to move out. But she knows darn well i dnt hav money to move or nowhere to go. My bf is not working && has no money himself. Iam very scared && stressed && upset about all this. My mom wuz a single mother && did her best to raise me rite && give me everything...which she did! Iam upset she feels this way && that she wnt consider my feelings. She doesnt wanna hear NOTHING i hav to say...&& when i told her i wuz keeping the bby...she became very angry && kept repeating the fact that i cnt live here && my bf needs to get a job (duuuhh..i kno that!) i jus wish she would understand. My bby is a lil person w l a heartbeat..hands...legs...arms..feet. Ugh. It kills me! Many nights i lose sleep bcus idk wat to do or where to turn...i feel completely lost!! Advice?!...help?!...pleaz ladies!! Thanx
. I do not plan in going thru w l this. My mom told me if i hav dis bby...i hav to move out. But she knows darn well i dnt hav money to move or nowhere to go. My bf is not working && has no money himself. Iam very scared && stressed && upset about all this. My mom wuz a single mother && did her best to raise me rite && give me everything...which she did! Iam upset she feels this way && that she wnt consider my feelings. She doesnt wanna hear NOTHING i hav to say...&& when i told her i wuz keeping the bby...she became very angry && kept repeating the fact that i cnt live here && my bf needs to get a job (duuuhh..i kno that!) i jus wish she would understand. My bby is a lil person w l a heartbeat..hands...legs...arms..feet. Ugh. It kills me! Many nights i lose sleep bcus idk wat to do or where to turn...i feel completely lost!! Advice?!...help?!...pleaz ladies!! Thanx
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you want support but you have no job, neither does he, you already have a kid, and I'm guessing your mom is working her butt off to support you and your kid, and probably pay for your education. you need to make an effort to prove that you deserve the respect you believe you do. get a job, make your bf get a job.
whether or not you keep your kid or put it up for adoption is not a factor in your needing to step it up. my mother had me when she was 17, we lived with my grandparents until I was around 6. during that time she worked full time and put herself through school to become an RN. she even paid rent to my grandparents, she expected nothing to be given to her.