I don't understand - Crying **Thank ya'll**

meghan6800meghan6800
edited June 2011 in Pregnant
I've been on pregly for around three months now and....

No one really responds to my posts, like after my surgery I posted several please helps and got no feed back. I mean whats wrong with me?? I've tried so many times to engage women one on one and get the cold shoulder ALOT. I read and try to interact with the active discussions and its like I'm not even posting. I'm having a very difficult pregnancy and this was supposed to be my outlet but all it does in the end is make me cry because I feel no one is listening, caring even saying thank you to the advice I do know about and give. So rarely is anything I post about even acknowledged. I'm just about ready to give up on this forum thing and find something else to do. My husband is frustrated because at first I was so excited for this and now I just cry. I show him all I post and all the women I've messaged individually and you'd have thought I'd have made at least one friend. Maybe I'm just being an over emotional pregnant woman... but if I stopped posting completely would anyone even notice?
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
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  • tinkertinker
    Sry uve felt that way... ill b ur friend :)
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  • Mylittleman2011Mylittleman2011
    I'm new here but please feel free to tag me also! No more tears for you!
  • SamiUKSamiUK
    Yeah it is to do with timing like around now i see not many people on I'm sorry you feel that way :(
  • mommabee13mommabee13
    A lot of times I have to bump myself to get responses cause other posts push it to the next page
  • KrazymomofAdrianKrazymomofAdrian
    I'm sorry, out helps to yah because a lot of people miss posts who could really help or offer support feel free to tag me anytime and when I check I will get to it when I come on.
  • momma2bof4momma2bof4
    awe honey. I am new here too. I am sure they aren't ignoring you. please keep faith. be strong and hold your head up
  • mommakk88mommakk88
    I'm sorry u feel that way don't cry we are here for you! I have not seen a lot of posts from u that I can think of but I will do my best n look for u n offer Wat advice I can
  • My2sonsMy2sons
    edited June 2011
    Ur emotional ..I bet ur a wonderful friend ...it just takes time..I.read a lot I just started posting...No one is more important than the other...WE R ALL IN THIS TOGETHER! I get over sensitive Also..its a symptom..don't ever think no one cares....We r here for u!!! KEEP POSTING...
  • My2sonsMy2sons
    edited June 2011
    >:D<
  • IttybittyIttybitty
    im sorry :(
    i havent seen alot of your post either..
    and i know alot of people dont see when you post of their walls either. i jus noticed that someone posted on my wall from over a week ago and im on here everyday
  • MommyLovesSparkleMommyLovesSparkle
    Aww I'm sorry you feel that way, you can tag me in your posts anytime and I'll always reply back , I haven't really seen your posts before but if I see any ill comment them or try to help as best as I can :)
  • myHEARTZx3myHEARTZx3
    Hey I'm new here and feel the same but I do understand how posts get pushed to the next page... Sometimes if I don't have asn answer I read posts without replying. In fact a few minutes ago I replied to ur discussion about the baby bullet and um waiting for u to get back to me :p
  • romeike89romeike89
    Nobody answers mine either and it does suck. I'm sorry. I'm janelle, 21 from Washington. Pregnant with my 1st baby, due January 12
  • camommycamommy
    I'm sorry that you are feeling that way. A lot of my posts get passed up too. Sometimes they move so fast through the list no one ever sees them. If you ever have questions that aren't answered you can msg me I'll do my best to answer or find the answer. I'm on baby #3 my other 2 are 9 and 11
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  • doodlesdoodles
    My questions went unanswered too. I stopped asking any and just try to support others. I understand how hurt you feel :-( but try not to feel that way.
  • Jaime77Jaime77
    I really try to comment on the threads with 2 comments or less. I too, know how starting a discussion with no responses feels like. Happened a few times to me. I'm a cool ass chick, I bet you are too. I just don't have tmi disscusions to talk about. ;) hang in here!
  • Proudmommy8789Proudmommy8789
    It happens to alot of people on here including me. Just comment on your own post to bump it back up on the list.
  • Jaime77Jaime77
    Try not to take it to heart tho, u need support like the rest of us. Hope ur pregnancy gets better!
  • KalikoJenieKalikoJenie
    on my phone i only look at the first page of discussions.. i know pretty bad of me. so sometimes i dont see posts that I could prolly help on, or if i know nothing about what is going on i wont comment either cuz i dont wanna give bad info. I am dorry that you feel this way and I am sure that it isnt that people are trying to ignore you or purposly give you the cold shoulder. If you ever need anything tag me and ill do my best to help you even if it is only to give you moral support
  • ExcitedForOctoberExcitedForOctober
    It also has to do alot with the cliques and "popular" members. It gets me so mad when someone "not popular" will post a good question and a "popular" member will post the dumbest post and they will get a trillion stupid answers
  • erikamrscollinserikamrscollins
    @meghan6800 I've posted on here several times to and Idk if its because I'm a teen mom but Noone responds to my post either ...
  • RobynnRawksRobynnRawks
    I'll be your pregly buddy :D though there is probably a time difference. *hugs* xx
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    @meghan6800... first of all, I will apologize for not paying attention to your posts. But I will say this. You cannot MAKE anyone answer your posts. I am diagnosed ADD and im sorry, if it doesn't catch my eye, I will surely miss it. I can't help it. I also don't have the ability to focus long enough to sit and read every single post that crosses my screen. It took a couple of months before I even posted, and longer to be recognized... its nothing personal, its life. I don't mean to be brash, and I hope you can understand where im coming from, but it would also help if you interacted in your own post ;)
  • mrs_shumrs_shu
    Maybe I'm misunderstanding but from what I see all your posts have comments on them..when they were originally posted.
    Don't be upset about individual messages, a lot of people don't get or see those notifications
  • Mnbaby3Mnbaby3
    I don't get a whole lot of responses either. Don't feel bad. I may not have answers for you all the time but feel free to message me anytime. :-)
  • Mnbaby3Mnbaby3
    @mommabee13 how do you bump yourself??? I think mine always get sent way down the list Tt too
  • i_believei_believe
    I know how u feel u can inbox me anytime
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