dont be disrespectful in my home.... ugh long

Tonight we had his 2 daughters niece nephew and my daughter. Hmy future mil came over to visit all the kids. We were getting the youngest ready for bed and she starts hollering for my bf. He tells her to hold on he's getting the little one ready for bed. So she's quiet for a couple minutes and starts hollering again. My bf again tells her it'll be another minute or two. So five minutes later he goes into the room. "He wrapped the rope around his neck" she tells him and points to the 2 yr old nephew. Are you kidding me? She left the lil one for five minutes with it on his neck instead of taking it off. So my bf of course does and asks why she just let him do it since she was in the room with them "its not my house and you shouldn't have a rope in here" what reasonable adult doesn't help a kid in need because its not there house? So my bf leaves the room. We'll his youngest one starts crawling for the first tim and we are excited well hecalls his mom into see and she just yells "no I don't care to be around you guys" and proceeds to tell all the children that my bf is a bad parent and a bad person and so she doesn't want to be around them anymore. Really? My bf lost it and tells her to leave our home. Well then she just goes on talking about unrelated events "your dad said he's not going to consider ashley as pregnant and gavin as his grandson cause your not man enough to tell him about it." (He knowsim pregnant he has even offered to buy crib) and then she's like "no one wants to do her baby shower because no one cares enough about her and so now I was going to do it but she can fnd someone else" (I never even mentioned baby shower to her. I can't stand being around her let alone let her plan my shower) then after a bunch of other crap she left and then stood outside banging on the door asking for anything shs ever bought back. Within five minutes ofher finally leaving my bf got called by several people that she called and complainedto. Ugh she annoys me. Why bring me or my son into it? I wasn't a part of the arguement. And never put down someone in front of children

Comments

  • Wow I'm sorry to hear that sweetie! My MIL is the same way so I know where your coming from and it sucks!
  • Out of line. My mom is pretty bad but not that bad.........yet
  • Oh wow I have a glimmer of umm liking for my mil. I'm really sorry it took your story to give me that
  • The thing about it is she does it all the time! Everytime she's around drama happens. she makes my skin crawl. When his ex found out about him and I expecting she took the girls away and there was nothing we could do but wait for court. My bf is a very involved father and loves his kids so it killed him. His mom harrassed him about it over and over and anytime he was abl to get his mind off of things shed bring it up. He wld ask her not to talk about it and then shed just continue. Then she goes "how does it feel to know that your exs bf gets to see your daughters everyday and you don't?" Talk about unsensitive. The lady is crazy
  • Has she ever had a mental evaluation? That's just not normal
  • @beaded_bunny I don't think so but I seriously thinks she needs it. Not even trying to be funny. I think something is a little bit off. I just don't get how she does and says half of the things. Makes me and my bf all the more thankful for my parents.
  • I guess i can say my mil is a saint compared to her.. My mil never visits so i don't gotta deal with that we go to her house and we text or talk on the phone on ce or twice a week..
  • As sad as it makes me that someone else has to deal with a MIL like mine, it makes me feel better that I'm not alone.....my MIL lives in Florida and there will be times she comes to NY and doesn't tell my husband she's here but she will tell her other 2 sons and spend time with them etc....good for me bad for my husband but when she does come around she is a ball of negativity and foulness her mouth is awful especially when there are children around.....We just gotta hang in there girlie because she is their moher and unless they say get the hell out of my life for good were stuck with them........:(
  • @pregagainyay I know it stnks :( I wish mine would move to a new state lol. His brother is doing a fathers day bbq. Shell probably be there. Joy. Starting drama I'm sure. Ugh. She just sounds so ignorant sometimes. The sad thing is all his life his mom bad mouthed his dad to the point my bf was scared of hi dad and didn't bond with him. His dad is a great guy and she tried to do the same thing last night with my bf and the kids. My bf won't tolerate that he blocked her number and everything. So I'm crosing my fingers today goes well.
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