hormones or would you be pissed?

QueenBeeDarling · June 2011

So today is fathers day right? And fathers day is where fathers spend time with their kids and families right? That's what made them able to celebrate this day to begin with.... anyways today my husband has not done shit with our son... what we did do with him I had to convince him to do.... I'm 28 weeks pregnant with his daughter and not once today has he even acknowledge that I was pregnant.. actually other than yelling at me telling me he doesn like to hear how I'm feeling (I've been having a lot of pressure in my va j j area and have been telling him about it) and he yelled at me this morning when I told him it hurts down there saying he doesn't like to hear that... anyways now its 9o'clock at night and he picks up and leaves to go to his aunts house after not saying a word to me for the last 4 hours.... I'm having an emotional breakdown, I have no family here and I'm really hurt by how he's been acting today.... am I being over emotional or would you feel this way too? I need some help bc I cannot even think, I'm crying my eyes out by how hurt I am by him today. Not to mention our son had a fit when he left bc he wanted to go with daddy

azmom · June 2011

I'd b pissed even if I wasn't pregnant I'm sorry your going thru this

QueenBeeDarling · June 2011

Thanks for the reply... funny thing about your scrren name @azmom is I moved all the way from az to ny with him and all MY family is in az so not only do I only have my husband and son here I am so sad I can't go to my moms house right now...

survivormommie3 · June 2011

what a jerk. yea id be pretty upset too. that's ridiculous. he needs a wake up call, but it sounds like he wouldnt see it because hes a bit too selfish. so sorry youre going through this

vtmamajuju · June 2011

Could something be bothering him that you don't know about?

mommy318332 · June 2011

Def not hormones.. I'm so tired of having husband blame shit on that.. I would be pissed as well.. hugs.. looks like its that kinda day.. me and hubby have been fighting for a week and he got pissed bc I didn't gush over him today.. he did absolutely nothing with the kids either.. I just don't get it sometimes.. and the kicker we got him a grill 2 weeks ago for fathers day.. and told his friend all he got was cards from the kids... wtf.. I didn't even get a card for mothers day... sometimes I feel like they need a good throat punch..lol

QueenBeeDarling · June 2011

Lol I guess it is just a hubby throat punching day! And @vtmamajuju I think there is something bothering him but he's not talking to me.... my hubby is the kind of guy that won't tell you how he feels until you put him in a headlock and demand he tell you... =/

lilpeapod913 · June 2011

I feel like your married to my bf! (You better not be

lol) mine is a lot like that. He didn't want to do much w the family and it's a little upsetting. Sorry you are dealing w that..you r not alone. Mine is selfish too! Im 28 weeks on Tuesday so im just a few days behind you..I think im driving mine crazy w my overly emotional demeanor

I can't help it sometimes tho, u know? Hang in there, you have us to vent to! Oh and I have the pressure in my vag too! Its terrible. And that bone hurts all the time!

bummy87 · June 2011

oh id be pissed I was pissed reading about it. Men just dont realise what they really have they only see what they dont have n e more which is usually not good things theyve moved on from

QueenBeeDarling · June 2011

Yea ladies thanks so much for the replies! I'm so glad I'm not alone.... I have finally calmed down... although I know I'm an emotional mess I just can't. Take being treated this way... more so my son being treated this way..

and that's a main reason I'm so pissed, he not only let me down but our 4 year old who now gets to go to bed without saying goodnight to daddy

vette_devil · June 2011

Yeah, I would be pissed, too. It's not hormones; it's justified. Hang in there, hun. *hugs*

hormones or would you be pissed?

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