for @mommy2isaiahngiselles.....no opinions please just facts

martinmommi3martinmommi3
edited June 2011 in Pregnant
So I want to start by saying this is not an opinionated topic simply just facts........I thought I would tell u my story an if u wanna read u can understand what I did in MY situation. This may help u or any other women in ur shoes. At least u will know ur not alone:)
If other preglys have a story please post to show @mommy2isaiahngiselle that she's not alone. We have been there.

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  • mommyof2girlsmommyof2girls
    Yes @mshahir
  • martinmommi3martinmommi3
    My first story......growing up my mom an all of us kids where beat. I walked in on my dad on top of my mom punching her in the head. One time my dad grabbed my moms head an slammed it into the arm of the couch, I grabbed my 3 yo sis an rjan outside she looked at me an asked if mommy was gonna die! These things are scarred in me for life. An in my sis. We grew up, at times, in shelters. My mom got out after 21 years. We don't blame her for staying with him but we don't understand why she put us through that! My mom has 5 kids 4 girls 1 boy. The 3 adult girls ended up with an abusive bd 2 got out. My brother still lives with my mom ( he's 29) I think its because he wants to protect her cuz he couldn't then. He has abused one of his ex's. (So she says)
  • martinmommi3martinmommi3
    @oregonmama o no! I wont stand for that either. But I did want to show her she's not alone! @ least its on my wall an not hers. I wanted us nice women to ban together share our outcomes so she can read them. I just feel that maybe it will help. I have no problems calling in the moderators if needed.
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    edited June 2011
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    @kristaf22... Poop toof!!!!
  • one5oneone5one
    You're definitely not alone. My dad was an addict & abused my mom when not sober. He was a alcoholic & drug addict. She became tge same as I got older. I saw it frequently & my self dealing with a man who when drinks tooo much acts like an asshole. You can get out & there's help. But don't be embarrassed to say what happened. I told my story & have family that treats me poorly. Whether because of it ir my lifestyle ....we are laidback & easy going procrastinators lol. My moms sister constantly tell my I'm not doin good enough in not so many words. Also as of a few days ago told my daughter I'm cutting her hair off & my hub is lazy & I'm a hoarder. Also asking if we are kicking her out of her room which we decorated just for her. This is also abuse. It seems I can't run from it. My kid is older & knows better. She chose not to vaxation w aunt & her daughter & grandson because of them getting their way( mind u my cousind 29) my aunt says she's got anxiety. I'm soo done with abusive behavior in my life. My hub learned & improves his ways much from our first years together why can't others see that & do the same for themselves?
  • one5oneone5one
    Phew sorry to blab off but few know the way I've felt & grew up. Anyways iknow its hard to deal with but you know we are here!!!
  • martinmommi3martinmommi3
    My 2 nd story...........when I was prego with my 1st my ex bd pushed me into the wall after a heated argument. I left for a day came back an thought maybe we could work this out. Well when my son was 7 months he did something stupid an I confronted him an threw his phone against the wall. He held me against the wall an puunched a hole in the wall on both sides of the wall. When he finally let me outa the room I grabbed my baby an he followed us an pushed us. I called the police he was sent to jail after awhile of him pleading an begging I gave in we had another child an he never hit me again. After 1 yr he cheated on me so I left him he still had his anger issues as well.
  • martinmommi3martinmommi3
    Thank u @one5one for sharing ur story. Everyone said they wanna ban together n support for @mommyofisaiahngiselle but not many stories???
  • martinmommi3martinmommi3
    Thank u @one5one for sharing ur story. Everyone said they wanna ban together n support for @mommyofisaiahngiselle but not many stories???
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  • 2ndmiricaleontheway2ndmiricaleontheway
    I shared part of my story last night with you dear..I also don't hash it out much but when it will help I will...hope that it did and I personally think (after much counceling) that everyone handles it differently there are stages for sure...but holding on to it just hurts us worse..I have learned and am grea=ful that I can help through what i/we have experinced! Its like finding sisters you didn't know u had! Time heals but it dosent mean u have to forget the salt in the wound just dosent hurt as badly anymore. To all the "broken" sisters who've picked themselves back my love is with you! For the "sisters" who are still in need of an extra hand reach we are here!
  • one5oneone5one
    Yes but a lot of women dpnt feel comfortable sharing their stories. I don't either...I've held many & much back. Why? I don't care to be judged for my actions/ reactions & choices. People tend to judge staying with the ones who hit. But its not always an abusive situation at all times. As long as the ones are willing to work on it & get help & learn triggers things can change. As for others things will never change because of addiction or alcoholismor denial. Sometimes even leaving doesn't change an abuser as they stalk the significant other to the point of jail or even death on one or both parts.
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  • one5oneone5one
    The past is exactly where you leave it. Why dwell? And staying isn't all bad either. But I will say this... once hit it will happen again. Maybe it wont. But in my experience & what I've heard & saw it does. He needs to find out why he did this & how to prevent it. That's the key!! Especially to a man or woman who doesn't do it normally. But I'm here to talk...if you need to. Hope things stay calm & normal for you all. @Mommy2IsaiahNGiselle
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