i think i hit bottom...sorry SO done!

2ndmiricaleontheway2ndmiricaleontheway
edited June 2011 in Pregnant
I been on bedrest for 4 weeks..I have an amzing 5 yrold but he is sooo active I am gonna blow my brains out (normally we play all the time I just can't now and he dosent understand) my huby works third shift and has been grabing all the ot he can so we don't get evicted...I have no help barely any food in the house (we have NEVER been poor...I got layed of from a job. In dec paying 50+k...and unemployment ran out last week...my washer broke hubbys phone broke (both yest and I SERIOUSLY can barely walk to the bathroom I am in SO much freaking pain...we know no one herev and my doc is a lil over an hour away...so if I call for help and he says come in I don't even have the gas to get there! I'm sory this is sooo long I wonder some days why I am here! To struggle? This is crazy!

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  • janellesmommiejanellesmommie
    Did u try to get an extension on ur unemployment? Here in ct dey give extensions for 6 mnths after is done.
  • janellesmommiejanellesmommie
    Im so sorry but things will get better just dont give up every1 is strugglin did u try gettin help from the state?
  • 2ndmiricaleontheway2ndmiricaleontheway
    Thx @janellesmommie yes hubby makes 27$ too much for food stamps ..I m just in a bad spot!
  • janellesmommiejanellesmommie
    its guna b okay :) im here if u ever wana talk!
  • NeekNeek
    Ull b surprised to how u cn b a rock bottom...and bring yourself way back up tu the top... I no this sounds dumb but dont stress it....because n time eri will wrk out
  • misskeribabeemisskeribabee
    In CA you can get unemployment for up to 2 years. I thought it was like that everywhere =/

    Well hun I know how u feel...my hubby and I are both laid off and are surviving off unemployment and our savings (which is rapidly decreasing), we even had to get a family member to rent our spare room so we don't lose our house :( When it rains it pours, but just have faith love...god will not give you anything you can't handle.
  • mom60511mom60511
    I'm really sorry. I can't imagine being on bedrest when you have other young kids.
  • 2ndmiricaleontheway2ndmiricaleontheway
    @everyone thanks
    @janelesmommie..I apreciate it you too! I am normaly not a "down" person I'm just in pain
    @neek thx I know god is there somedays I just wonder if he thinks I'm superwoman! Lol
    @misskeribabee I'm sorry for ur situation too...being on unemployment sucks the employer based benifits just ran out last week I had to "reapply" for the federal ones waiting to see what happens maybe I will get lucky and we too had a very close friend renting our spare room he just moved out last month and I think that's part of the strain is we were used to getting that $ and we spent the last of our savings on tires for the car..(one of them blew)..I know we are all in the same boat and I don't think for a second I have it worse I just needed someone o tlak to s thx again girls

    I am just praying this pain goes away I can't afford to be in l&d again...the baby is engaged and according to doc in the last postion b4 comming out so I can barely walk to the bathroom it litterally fees like she is going to fall out! And now I've started contracting again! Grrrrr
    THANK YOU for listening!
  • mgrosemgrose
    Awww sweetie, things gotta go up from here!! If u need to chat I'm here for ya!! Hugs!!
  • kritten_octoberbbykritten_octoberbby
    edited June 2011
    Could you say you and hubby are separated and try to get wic or food stamps that way??
  • 2ndmiricaleontheway2ndmiricaleontheway
    @mgrose thank you been trying all day to figure it out! I know were gonna make it just some days you wonder how..I appreciate the ear :-) hugs back
    @kritten_octoberbby we can't cuz in our state they would go after his wages for the ammount of support I was recv. Anyway! Pretty stupid! Butthanksfor the thought I was a good idea! Lol
  • kritten_octoberbbykritten_octoberbby
    Aw that sux....
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