So its my first time beiin pregnant n im sixteen. N I havemt told my mom n im atleast 12 weeks pregnant.. I havent gone to a doctors yet cuz im scared.my mom.will find out can sum 1 give me sum advice
Unfortunately you are going to have to speak up sometime as its not going to just disappear. Its not going to be easy but it does happen. Without knowing your family situation it makes it hard to give you ideas on how to approach the situation but you really should see your doctor sooner than later.
well, your mom needs to know especially if you are living with her. She might be a lil disappointed but thats your mom and I am sure she will be there for you and to see you through. Honey you are now grown so be a woman and tell her, I am 24 and I hid it from my mom for a month and I am married it is just sometimes hard to tell someone but you feel so much better after wards. DEFINITELY GOT TO THE DOCTORS.... if you dont want to say hi doctor i am pregnant just go in for something else... child lie and say you are sick to your stomach and you dont know whats wrong, they will then say you are pregnant ask when you last had a period and go from there be surprised like you didnt know, take your mom.
All in all you will be fine, it is scary but you can do it.
You should be able to set up an appointment with a doctor through planned parenthood without your mom's consent. I would just tell her though. Honestly it will be hard but she will find out eventually anyway.
If your BD is with you then maybe both of yall can talk to her. It may seem bad at first but thing will get better. You are in for a long ride so might as well talk to her now if not shes gonna be even more mad when she finds out from someone else.
Yes misspreggo my bfs still wit me.. he actually wants a baby.. Suprisin hu..lol.. N thanx every one for the advice.. Ima tell ma mom.wen she aimt so crabby..lol u guys really helpd me:)
i know how u feel. i was 16 when i was preg with my daughter and was so scared to tell her and i was 16 weeks when she finally found out. I couldn't even come to tell her myself so i had my bestfriends mom help me. It's easier when ur not alone...
i was 20 living with my sister when i got pregnant and i was scared to death to tell any of them. i would avoid talking or seeing them because i felt so guilty for not telling them. but i felt so much better after i finally told all of them. i promise after you tell your mom, u will feel so much better.. its hard but you really need to tell her and its better sooner then later. good luck!
i was so scared that she was gonna be pissed and she was not at all.. she just accepted it and helped me out alot. so goodluck with breaking the news..
If u need help telling ur mother I am a therapist and I deal with situations with young others alot. Id love to talk to you or even ur mom with advice and give u help with options and support systems in ur area. I've been there too I get pregnant with my daughter at 17
I got pregnant when I was 17. I didn't want to tell my mom cuz she always told me she would be super pissed and would kill me if I ever got pregnant. I knew I had to tell her eventually cuz its not going away. I just told her that I missed a couple periods and I'm not sure what to do. She then asked me if I could be pregnant and I said yeah I guess I could be. So she made an appointment for me so we could find out for sure ( I already knew I was cuz I took 2 home pregnancy tests) It was easier for me to let the doctor tell her I was pregnant. To my surprise she was very supportive. So I suggest you just tell your mom. Its going to be hard and very emotional but you'll feel a lot better not having this big secret.
I'm 15, 16 in a few days. My little boys due in July. It was the hardest thing telling my parents but trust me its worth it. You can do this dude. (: if you need anything I'm here for you! My mom flipped a little, but now she's ridiculously excited to be a grandma. She actually is the main reason I didn't get an abortion. My boyfriend begged me to but my mom said god doesn't make mistakes now here I am. Happy as can be that my sons gonna be here soon.
I was 16 when I found out in November. Now 17 and due next month. Honestly, there is no easy way to say it really. You just gotta come out with it. And I'll be 100% honest, you may hear some things you don't want to and family may say things they regret BUT do not let ANYONE tell you you need to get an abortion/adoption. You do what YOU feel is right for not only you, but your baby. And I promise you, after a few months (if that) they'll be excited as ever that a new baby is coming into the family! Good thoughts and Prayers sent your way girl!
Im 18 and got preggo 23+4 weeks ago... I live with my fiance have since I was ur age she hates him. I hid it for 2 months finally told her and she adjusted... hope it goes well
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Good luck.
All in all you will be fine, it is scary but you can do it.