i think i deserve a dang award...long vent

edited June 2011 in Pregnant
Because I have a fricken pain in my butt fiance. He's so fricken rude. I was sick coughing and he kicked me outta bed before and that's fine for him. Now im 23+4 days preggo with his kid and most nights I wake up and am restless and uncomfortable all night. I hardly sleep. So tonight I finally fall asleep and he wakes me up within ten min moving constantly. Now im already pissed at him cuz we fought yesterday and he told me im stupid and I said tonight I wanted an apology (god forbid I ever hurt his feelings in any way and don't apologize) and he says if ur gonna act stupid ill call u stupid. I was livid. Anyway so he wakes me up after I slept for five min complaining his back hurts...uh fine whatev so he goes and gets something to put under the mattress and box spring and he tells me to lift the mattress and spring....uh hello its pretty heavy im preg shldnt be lifting and I have to pick it up? So I do he's still a jerk so I lose it. And he tells me im selfish cuz im mad I need sleep when his back hurts and he asks himself a lot if its because im 18 (he's 28) or what but then he thinks to himself im to immature to be 18... uh....ok now im pissed and crying so I say ok well u need to re eval our relationship if that's how u feel and he says he will... wow. Now keep in mind we've been together 2 yrs he hasn't taken care of ANYTHING that needed done till just now since he's screwed us and he's been able to go back to work for 3 mo and refuses to take any job that dnt pay super amazing... he's been like this blaming me for everything for awhile Idk wat to do.

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  • If im restless at night cuz of being preggo I get yelled at too not just when im sick. I can't take this stress
  • Slap him and tell him to get it together! LOL
  • Ugh id love too... I don't get him.
  • It happens... I dont talk to my husband when im mad. I sleep in the couch if i have too and when im calm we talk.... Dont stress out if he doesnt show u he cares why should u? think about the baby your husband is no longer important. Thats what my ob told me when I told him I was stressing out too much because of arguments.
  • ur man is having self image problemd he needs help
  • K well he's really freaking now... says he's gonna take our baby away from me and how im trash and I don't deserve him
  • Tell him good luck he will need one hell of a lawyer and a case against you!
  • * he don't deserve you who needs a guy that treats them that way
  • Stop crying and begin laughing like a maniac with craziness in your eyes. He will leave you alone.

    Btw he wont take the baby from you. Guys like to havethe last word...especially if you are crying. Dont let him talk shit.
  • @their_mommy that's what I told him too... all I have to do is go to court and show them how he didn't handle his divorce for 6 months and he screwed around with the child support he owed her etc and he will look soo irresponsible. And im starting to think that's true he dnt deserve me. @BayouMamma if I do that he calls me an immature idiot
  • @OregonMama i slept on the couch. He blamed me for everything gave a halfass "apology" even tho" I started it" and said I could come to bed if I wanted so I said f that. He's such a hypocrite.
  • Sounds like all your troubles will be fixed with a good mattress:) men are sooo immature sometimes. Tell him to go get a job and buy a new matress and stop blaming you for his sorry ass!
  • Um, I find it hard to believe the courts will take a baby away from the mother and give it to a man who was 26 and still married screwing with a 16 year old. Maybe you should remind his trashy a$$ of that the next time he tries to say anything to you. He's NOT better than you!
  • @ashthurs lol I did say something to that effect. @TishJ330 good point... I don't know why I didn't think of that point. Im so sick of his holier than thou attitude. Thanks. No matter what he will NEVER get my baby girl away from me if he tried
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  • He can't take the baby from you. He's unemployed . Let's say he tried to despite you, court will decide on your favor since its always best interest of a baby to stay with a mother. Unless he can prove you abondoned the baby or been a bad mother so don't be scared. I doubt he will ever try cuz how is he gonna take care of a little baby. You on the other hand could collect child support from him:) and goverment benefits might apply , I'm not sure but ill look into it. Either way you're the boss so tell him to get his act together and start pulling his weight :)
  • @mshahir at this point I agree. @ashthurs thanks for the info. I never thought he'd be dumb enough to threaten me with this... especially after his ex wife took his kid.
  • Wow....he sounds completely ridiculous. What an immature little kid! He does NOT deserve you!
  • @stacyrae thanks. Ur right he doesnt anymore. He used to be great...now... I told him he's the immature one and that atleast I can keep my life in order. :-q
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  • I think its only man who delay maturing. I guess because they don't go thru physicall changes that much. Some men even in their forties are immature. I realised some girls even at such a young age soo advanced. That just proves men are dumb hahaha I better hope my husband doesn't see this lol
  • Even thou he's beautifully matured:)
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