she is gonna be mad...

edited June 2011 in Parenting
Ok i stay with my grandma and mom in the house pretty much everyone in the family grew up in so the house is mad old...well its summer and the ants are back but we got a bigger problem we have spiders...and different kinds at that...normally it wouldnt bother me but now its just not me anymore i have a kid now and he is a newborn...this morning i sent my son with his farther and other grandmother because i do not want my son to get bit...now my problem lies with my mom bc she might get mad with the decision i made but i just dont want him to get hurt and im 2 the pointt where today i might move out bc tthese bugs are everywhere and i cant stop itching and since my bd been here he has been gettin bit all over his body by something idk wat 2 do i have no car yet but i cant drive yet anyway bt i have to get my job back idk u guys im torn and stress my mom is just hard 2 talk 2 and i fear if i leave she will be mad

Comments

  • Would she let you bomb the house?
  • You got to take care of your little one, I'm trying to find away to get rid of the spiders I have before baby gets here
  • See if there's a day everyone can be out of the house for a few(4-6) hours, get a bunch of zodiacs and bomb the hell out of the house!
  • Bombing the house really wont work the house has so many holes and open spaces in the house its not in good condition
  • Your doing the right thing. Sorry this is happening!
  • Idk what 2 say 2 my mom
  • Try an exterminator? They get into all nooks but I would keep the baby away for a day or 2 till the fumes go away...
    But if you leave, I think they would understand...
  • Tell her you are doing what's best for your child. Being there puts him in danger. She will get over it. You're a grown woman, you can do what you need to do for you and your son.
  • You have to be honest and tell her straight up its a lot of ants and spiders here... I have to leave to make sure my son doesn't get hurt hopefully she understands
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  • Ugh she is sad....
  • I bet she is. : ( but your little guy needs to be in a safe environment, so good job, mama!
  • Do what's best for your baby and she just has to be understanding.
  • I still feel bad and keep crying...
  • Oh, honey! I don't have any advice but I hope you work it out with your Mom soon. Maybe she'll see your point of view if you just give her a little time. Don't cry, sweetie! :-S
  • It's for your family safety.you can't help that she'll get mad.I'd rather her head then me and my baby get bit by some serious and have to go to the hospital.
  • Are you saying your mom will be mad at you for protecting your baby? You are doing what we are all obligated to do as moms, good for you
  • She wasnt mad just sad and she said she understand she is gonna miss me and kaleb its cute lol im her baby so i understand why she is sad
  • Wonder if she can qualify for help with fixing those leaks and cracks.. Here in pa they have a program for homeowners needing repairs.
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