so tired of this...

Mazyg08Mazyg08
edited June 2011 in Pregnant
usually im the kind of person to keep my feelings to myself and just bottle everything up...but today I cant take it anymore..i received a text from my husband basically saying that if I didnt attend his families church he was leaving me because theres no point in us being together...im 33 weeks pregnant with our second child....idk what to do...its not that i dont believe in god cuz I do, I just dont like his families church and im sorry to say this but that church is like a circus and its not for me...and he has known this since we were dating...i know deep down in my heart that his mom has evrything to do with this, she hates me and is always saying she will do anything to take my kids away from me....idk what to do what to think and I feel so alone....did I mention his mom is a huge hipocryte and only uses religion when its convinent for her...i just really want to get my things and leave but I have nowhere to go and nobody that is there for me...

Comments

  • stbmilitarybratstbmilitarybrat
    Boo :( Have yous talked about it in person? I dont think an ignorant text from your husband is reason enough to pack up and leave but I know these hormones are a terrible thing!! Guys can just be real jerks. I think you should talk to him about it first before doing anything and see what he has to say. If he didnt have a problem with it while yous were dating it seems really random for him to say that out of the blue.
  • momofSOONtobe7momofSOONtobe7
    Wow. Well id tell him I guess you don't love me enough to respect my feelings and thoughts bc u knew this before. I guess he really doesn't know much about God him self nor his mom. Bc that's not what God would want im sure. He wants moms and dads to be together really.
  • Mazyg08Mazyg08
    we have talked about this so many times, but he just wants to attend this place cuz of his mom always bringing it up...she even went as far as saying that if we didnt attend her church our daughter would die and go to hell....he knew since he meet me that I did not want to attend that church...i told him that its sad he lets his mom make his choices when it comes to our family...i honestly feel like this situation has nothing to do with god and having a better relationship with him, its just about attending a building for him to go see his friends and act like hes single..
  • Mazyg08Mazyg08
    I cant belive it im in shock..he just asked me for a divorce....
  • juliek77juliek77
    he is asking for a divorce because you won't go to his families church? I am sorry but that doesn't sound like anyone you need to be with. I know that is harsh but geesh. I am sorry you have to go through this. I had a horribly controlling, babying, bitchy ex MIL. She was a major reason I divorced my ex (besides the fact that he was cheating and letting his mother walk all over me). I can't believe his mother would tell you that your daughter was going to die and go to hell because you don't want to go to her church. That just disgusts me to no end!
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