I know exactly how you feel. I'm 22 weeks and still adjusting to my different social life. Most of my friends are single with no children. Normally we would be out having a drink or hanging @ the house. I'm not used to being @ home on sat night! Don't get me wrong, I'm excited about my baby just trying to adjust. .
Back to my discussion, I kno the baby will b here in a few months but until then I feel so lonely. My bestfriend doesnt like doin much with me now tht im prego and other than tht I hav a lot of guy friendz. I guess I should b studying but I just want a little excitement.
@Maya One of my good friends is also pregnant, and believe me when I say if we spend too much time together just me and her. We get on each others nerves. Its like,"can you make me a sandwhich?" "Why can't you make them" lol. Though we can talk for hours daily on the phone. Her and I are both two needy to be in each others prescence, alone. @divamommy Activities that I enjoy alone, or with even peolple who know I am pregnant are invite friends a close relatives over for a poluck and games. I love playing the Michael Jackson Esperience with family and friends. Also Movies. In the beginning when I was strugging with my partner, Who has no children: I explained to my parents, close friends, and sisters, and brother, also previous partner, that I was gonna need help through this pregnancy because of the situation. I also told them I would really need their emotional support and physical assistance, and asked them to take turns being their for me. Initiallly that was the situation, but afterwhile, and a but kicking from my brother and father(love those guys) my prtner had a revelation. Have you trid really expressing yourself to your loved ones, tears and all?
Iknow how that is. I'm 35weeks and so ready for my little man to get here. Me and my bestfriend use to be inseperable before I got pregnant. .now we barely hangout. I found its easier to chill with other pregnant girls cause they get what I'm going through.
Well thts why I really like this forum because it good to talk to other prego women. Unfortunately I dont kno anyone who is also prego right now but a lot of girls I kno just had their first are comforting. They understand a lot and I kno my baby will hav playmates lol. @cadymj20 Thts actually a good idea openly telling my family how I feel and im going to try it.
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