how men ccan make u soooo upset

MommyofTwo87MommyofTwo87
edited July 2011 in Pregnant
So my boyfriend made me very upset I came up too spend a week wit my parents they lived 6hours away I was gone 3days n my man said he didn't feel love or I was comin back so he cheated on me wit his ex gf I really don't know wut too do if ill look at him different will I look at him the same n he was always accusing me of cheating n now he's don't it help me ladies : (

Comments

  • survivormommie3survivormommie3
    wow. uhm sounds like EXCUSES to me. that's pathetic. to blame you and say "ohhhh, waaaa, i dont feel loved- youre visiting your parents who live 6 hrs away." cmon now. that's bs. don't take that.
  • mommy2b1111mommy2b1111
    Be sounds remedial..cmon u dnt deserve that hell prolly do it again
  • mommy2b1111mommy2b1111
    He*
  • MommyofTwo87MommyofTwo87
    Tha is how I feel bout it he says I only told u cuz I love u but if u loved me so much u wouldn't of done it at all its bs
  • MommyofTwo87MommyofTwo87
    Yea he probably will do it again but y do I love him so much
  • 3rdangelontheway3rdangelontheway
    sounds like he just wanting to find any xcuse to justify what he did,and the whole thing about him always accusing you of cheating sounds like he was insecure because he was cheating before now just my opinion... I'm not gonna say leave him because you know him better then i do but go with your heart and if you feel like he will do it again then leave because you wouldnt want your child to see you un happy. i made that mistake with my first 2 kids father of 6 n a half yrs and after all that time and all the times i believed he wouldnt cheat again and thought okay he is for real this time we have kids he loves me he wont do it again and i dont want to give up on my family, i still found my self in the same situation. it ended up making me very depressed and insecure, i felt like i wasnt good enough for him and we argued a lot after the trust was gone... so i had to make a decision to leave because my kids was getting older and i see the tole it was having on them,now im happy and it would have to be another place another time another day and a different life for me to go back. go with your heart mama and stay strong you deserve better. he couldve gave a better xcuse for cheating instead of you going to see your parents and him feeling alone!
  • MommyofTwo87MommyofTwo87
    He is the best man I have ever been wit but cheating is not okay I have never done it so I thought he wouldn't do it too me but of course he waited till I was gone
  • txmoorekattxmoorekat
    I agree with @3rdangelontheway. He has probably accused you in the past because he's cheated in the past or he has thought about it. There are only a couple reasons he would have told you. He did it intentionally to hurt you, or he wants to make you afraid that he'll do it again. You deserve better.... Sorry you are going through this.
  • luvbumpluvbump
    =/
  • MommyofTwo87MommyofTwo87
    Thank u girls I needed too talk bout it
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