anyone facing a divorce while your pregnant

lucky7lucky7
edited February 2011 in Pregnant
I can barley talk right now me n hubby got into fight n he said very hurtful things.things that can not be forgotten. This will be hard to get over if possible.he says he wants a divorce.he thinks I've cheated on him threw the 10yrs of our marriage.I can't breath,see,or think.it hurts so bad.I can't stop crying.im a very strong person but this has broke me.we have gone threw almost getting divorced before but now im preg wit 5th I can't do this pregnant.Im so confused where this is coming from I feel like he has had a mental break down n lost his mind.he nvr admits when he's wrong im always wrong and he's always right.my brain hurts from all the pain n stress.I talked to my mom and my best friend they helped a lil but have nvr been in this situation.

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  • donnadonna
    What an arsehole is all I can say, how selfish is he? I spent ten years with someone who mentally and physically ripped me to pieces until I was on antidepressants. I tried to endlessly justify myself when i'd done nothing. You cannot reason with men like that, ever! You know that really don't you, you haven't failed, you've tried your best, walk away, choose to be happy. I stayed for the children. I stayed out of embarrassment. I stayed because I thought I could convince him, I stayed because I didn't want to fail and because I thought I had no choice. Then one day I had this clarity and that was that. It was like waking up. I've had the best two years of my life since. I can finally breath out, when someone walks in the house i'm not holding my breath till bedtime, i'm not dreading to go home, or look people go the eye. You have family, you so absolutely can do it. You've done it so far and you can have peace in your house, in your head, in your heart, I can't tell you how good that feels, it's the best feeling go the world. You'll be proud of yourself believe me and you'll know your kids can be proud of you too for breaking out of it. You're not stupid so don't feel like you have to suffer for ever. I'm pregnant again now and the only people I need are my family. I'm at peace and its amazing! Good luck Xx
  • MSCMSC
    edited February 2011
    While men say hurtful things all the time, you need to reach inside and find your inner strength. Get strong! This is the time for you to be there for your four children and the one you have on your way. ALLOW NO MAN TO EVER BREAK YOU!

    You can't stop him from thinking the thoughts he's going to think, all that's in your control is YOU. It's all about how YOU decide to proceed. You're in the better position, because if he wants a divorce, he will pay for it straight out the ---.....He wants to see how broken his words can make you, but girl...my motto is NEVER LET THEM SEE YOU SWEAT! Be about the business of taking care of what's yours and getting everything you deserve.

    Women are much stronger than men, you'll be surprised what you can get yourself through...a year from now...this will all be a memory.
  • lucky7lucky7
    Thank you ladies I will write more in a couple days when I can wrap my head around this n straighten it out n I can't really see today I've nvr cried so much before my eyes r burning so bad and there gooey almost like pink eye im putting warm wash clothes on them bc they hurt so bad n I have a horrible headache from crying so much n im trying to take care of all my kids there off of school all wk.so I have 11,9,8 and 17month Home on top of it.im tryin so hard not to let them see me upset
  • abby5abby5
    I am going threw a divorce and my 9 yrs of marriage was hell..I cheated and had another mans baby but we stayed married. 2 more yrs after that and finally I got tired of it all thee verbal abuse
    ..I have 3 boys 2 with him and 1 by my current bf ama now I am preg again with my bf baby but so dam happy...but we have to keep this prev secret cuz I live in tx and you can't divorce a preg women...ya me I so want my divorce final
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