Bachelor Parties
So my man was invited to a bachelor party at a strip club tmrw and as wonderful as he is, he told me about it and said "if you don't want me to go, I won't" so of course, my pregnancy hormones/pregnancy insecurities kicked in and blurted "I don't want you to go" as I turn beet red and almost cry because I don't like the idea, but I don't like saying no to things...even if its him watching naked women dance. He was completely fine w my reply and left it at that. Now, I have NO reason not to trust him..I trust him more than any guy in my entire life. He is very dedicated to me and our family..a little selfish at times, but he loves me. I said no, because I feel disgusting, unattractive, and losing the confidence I had before! But now that I've been thinking about it, I feel like telling him it's ok. Its for his buddy, he wouldn't be there long and I know he would never do anything to go against me. I feel like saying "honey, the other day I was being silly and insecure for no reason, so if you want to go out with the boys tmrw, go and have a good time!" Any opinions?
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That you trust him, but are feeling somewhat insecure and unattractive.
It's amazing what guys can do for us when we give them the full picture to work with.
I'm just figuring this out now with my man.
If you initially didn't want him to go and he was fine with that.. don't flip flop and say go. Let it ride and maybe cook a nice meal, get doll'd up and have a romantic night..
Better yet... Regardless if you're pregnant, doll up, slip on something sexy and surprise him with his own personal dance at home. Even if you feel silly.. at least you guys will enjoy a good laugh. Lol
@natashalynn @mgrose
@ynvtish I like your idea!
@mshahir I know, but I kinda feel like I would feel more confident if I went w "yea go ahead and go" and just left the thought out of my mind...he isn't going to see anything he hadn't seen before..granted, they will all look better than I do right now, but im 30 weeks preg!
@oregonmama I was planning on getting him all riled up beforehand because he has to work right after