Im Heartless!!

mommyof3tobemommyof3tobe
edited July 2011 in Pregnant
According to my bd I'm heartless!! I put him out 2wks ago and he still hasn't given me the keys to apt. I guess he feel he has rights since his name is on the lease, even though he hasn't given me a dime on rent since Jan. I'm the reason he's in his situation supposedly homeless. You'd think he had a plan after all those months of not giving me anything. Oh wait I do get child support for our two children. Guess that should've been sufficient to take care of over 1k in bills per month. With my heartless self!! Am I heartless pregly??? Please no bashing or negitivity!!!

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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
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  • jcmommyjcmommy
    Ditto on what @lmelanson says. You can't keep doing it on your own. Show him who's boss!
  • mandac10mandac10
    heck everyone tells me im heartless makes u stronger! feelings are for the weak! no one can hurt me cause i dont let them. nothing wrong with being that way sweetie!
  • mommyof3tobemommyof3tobe
    Seriously though I'm beginning to think I am. I mean we had an agreement that I made sure was ok with him several times before moving in with him!! He has a job always have. I'm beginning to think he wanted me to take care of him basically and since I'm not he needs to make me feel bad about it! I think he wanted to manipulate and use me! Especially since I get child support from him, he says I owe him anyways! !!
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  • Mama_luvs_her_girlsMama_luvs_her_girls
    Sometimes people need a little tough love so they can learn to straighten themselves out. You are not heartless just fed up
  • lilacsiamese77lilacsiamese77
    I'd rather see you be "heartless" than a doormat!!! I think you were right to kick him out. If he wants to stay he needs to contribute, period!!!
  • mommyof3tobemommyof3tobe
    Thanks guys, I just needed some reassurance !! I think I was beginning to think I was wrong, especially since I simply asked , when he would give me my keys back, stop coming in showering and to just get his things! He told me that my heartless self just needs to Deal with it like he is, since he doesn't get his place for a few weeks.
  • PrayingForMiraclesPrayingForMiracles
    Change the locks. I had to do that to an ex. Good luck!
  • mommyof3tobemommyof3tobe
    Smh! Ok
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  • mommyof3tobemommyof3tobe
    @angieahrns oh I do at night! !! He hasn't tried coming in while were sleep. Thank goodness, I don't need more drama.
  • letysfirstletysfirst
    I dobnt think u r heartless, I think u r a strong woman n put ur foot down n ur not gonn take his shit n I applaud (sp?) You :)
  • mommyof3tobemommyof3tobe
    @letysfirst thanks ;-) and everyone else as well! Makes me feel better.
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