omg I just found out

edited July 2011 in Pregnant
That people in church are planning a "surprise baby shower" .. my little cousin is 13.. and she came out of no where.. IM GOING TO YOUR BABY SHOWER!! .. i was like baby shower? O_o what baby shower? i am not doing one.. she was like : oh.. i didnt say anything.. and ran off. lol i know is the people in church because my hubby got beaten til he told me, but he didnt tell me the day .. and I WANT TO KNOW!!
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  • @mshahir it is, since i wasnt going to do one, since i have been feeling like shit through the whole pregnancy.. is nice that someone is going to do all that work for me :D
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  • @mshahir is like 100+ people, but i know like 60 of them, i dont know if they all got invited or just people i know.. i wonder
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  • @mshahir i know right? XD i hope is just the people i know, even though it feels like i know all of them since they are all so nice , but i just dont talk to all of them .. ugh is going to be really interesting
  • That's way cool very nice of them :)
  • aww that is sweet :) sounds like it'll be interesting but hopefully it isn't awkward with the people who you don't talk to :)
  • @mommakk88 yup it is, the best part is that i dont have to worry about a thing, since i wasnt suppose to find out ..
  • @3rd_bumps_a_charm I know .. i hope so too, but i guess if it is church people doing it, you are suppose to invite everybody, if not it would be kind of rude
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  • all you gotta do is sit back, relax, and enjoy your shower :) I'm sure everyone will make it enjoyable for you even if you don't talk to them :)
  • Haha that's the best part! I had to do everything for mine except decorate.... my mom sucks at planning and at spending time with me
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    @3rd_bumps_a_charm yeah :D, they are really nice people, i dont know if the fact that my parents are the pastors have something to do with it.. but eh.. at least they are really nice :D
  • Your so lucky! I had one this. Saturday and no one showed :'(
  • @sdherrejon aw :( , are you sure you sent out the invitations hun? :(
  • Ya, I sent out almost 30 invites.. some people messaged me on fb letting me know they weren't gonna make it. And most of them wrote on my wall telling me they got their invite and couldn't wait to see me. "/
  • @sdherrejon ugh people suck :( , i hate when you invite people to a party or a shower and they dont come, when i did my daughters first bday i was so stressed out because it was at 11 am , and no one showed til like 1pm , but alteast they appeared at the end
  • It opened my eyes wide open though.. there is no such thing as friends :'( it was the most humiliating thing that has happened to me..
  • @sdherrejon i lost all my friends after i got married, they all though i changed too much for them to hang with me, so they just call me when their bfs dump them or they need advice.. or something else. the people i know from church treat me way better than my old friends do.. my best friend is still around.. once in a couple of months she calls me :(
  • Same here, as soon as I got pregnant with my first child, my friends all suddenly disappear... my husband is my one and only friend.. thank God for him :)
  • @sdherrejon :D yeah, my hubby is so many things at once.. i feel bad for him sometimes
  • Lol yes hahaha.. well I hope u have fun at your bby shower :) and I hope you get all u need for baby
  • I'm sorry :( its not cool at all my dad is the total opposite he is always there n willing to help thank goodness I love him so much!
  • @mommakk88 omg my dad too, well he is my step dad but raised me since i was 2 years old.. so i see him as my dad.. but he is so amazing, some times i think he loves me more than my mom does..
  • Well I'm glad we both have good daddys :-) at least we have someone. I know I will always be there for my daughter n I guess I have my mom to thank for that sense she is never there because it makes me want to do things way different because I know how much it hurts. My mom walked out on my dad n I and took my younger brother not to long ago well when I found out I was pregnant. I had just moved back home with my fiance n she up n walked out. I will never do that to my kids.
  • @mommakk88 I feel the same way , I see every mistakes she makes and i pray that i dont do the same things she does, my little brothers are 11 and 8, they love when i take them out because my mom never has time for them.. my brother is 8 and he doesnt know how to tie his shoes because my mom doesnt have time to teach him.. and i am at a point right now where i have no patience :( .. but i feel like she could be doing more since she doesnt work.
  • She doesn't work but doesn't have time!?!? That's horrible my mom was at least there in the beginning she never taught me a whole lot Sept Wat not to do.... funny how she is a teacher. I'm so sorry that's just terrible I really hope things get better. My mom keeps coming back in n out as she pleases n she seems to think she will get to send a lot of time with my daughter.... huh funny y would I let u do that when u have hardly been there...
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