My mommy has been with me every time I've had a baby...lol So she'll be there for this one, it's her tradition. And my husband of course....this will be his first time, he missed it with his first born.
@ coolbabybeans I kind of agree with you on the not wanting her anywhere down. I am just so private I think it would be wierd and I want it to be a really special moment with just me and my bf.
If my.husband is here then him, if he's deployed when I have a baby, then my mom. I will have another c section so I can only have 1 person in the room.
My husband and mom were with me when I had my daughter. But I kind of just want my husband in there this time. I want some alone time with the three of us, and I want my daughter to be the first person to get to see the baby. I know my mom is expecting to be in the delivery room. Do you think it's wrong to tell her I only want him in there? I don't want to hurt her feelings.
@bama143126 I kinda feel the same, I just figure all the time before the actual delivery it will be mostly just my hubby and I and then when I feel ready to push ill have my mom in there. I don't want to hurt her feelings and she was there for my first where as my hubby wasn't. If your mom won't be offended then ask her but its up to you, if you just want some "us" time I'm sure she will understand.
The first time I had my mom 2 sisters and bf but this time im only going 2 have my bf cause my sister is going 2 watch my kids and mom and other sister live n ny now.
Just my hubby. But I am not going to the hospital until the last possible moment. I hated waiting around and all the interference of the nurses and iv with my first two babies. I think I'll throw a party until I am ready to go then have everyone at the party watch my two boys while we go to the hospital. I don't think any of our family will be offended that they don't get to go to the hospital since only hubby was there for the first two. And they will be happy that they know I am in labor before I actually have the baby. We didn't tell them the last two until we were cleaned up and in the recovery room.
This is my 2nd so my husband does not want to be in the room this time but I only want him cause he's the only one I can yell at. LOL. He almost passed out last time, let's see how this goes.
I want my bf and my dad. My dad was my coach and manager thru my athletic career so he really gets me, especially thru stress. It's not that I don't want my mom there, but 3 people might be too much to handle and I'm not sure it'll be allowed. But I'm worried my mom might be offended. thoughts, opinions??
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But no one without a medical degree is going to go lower than my hips lol.
My bf,dad,2nd "momma" , & auntie