why do thngs change between bf after getting pregnant (please read)

Maggy18Maggy18
edited July 2011 in Relationships
Thngs have changed so much between ma bd.. sometimes I feel like I dnt love him anymore he tells me he loves me bt I feel like he's not being honest wit me... before I was pregnant he would always break up wit me he would yell mean thngs to me n I would always b da one begging him not to leave me dat thngs would change between us n day would get better.. I loved him so much I did da most dumbest thngs for him n now I Sumtimes wish I would have left him wen I had da chance.. I dnt regret ma baby Cuz I love her So much even tho I still dnt have her n ok arms.. do I feel like dis cuz of ma hormones or is it cuz I'm not n love anymore.. I'm so confused Idk Wat to do I wana b happy n if would make me happy bt now everything is so different.. there r days dat I feel like I love him n days I wana tell him to jst forget boot me.. before I was pregnant I would always want him to b da one showing me he loved me now he does a lot Dats shows me he loves me n cares bout me I have him da way I wantd him back den n now its like I do n dnt want him at da same time.. Wat can I do or.Wat should I do?

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  • lily_glzlily_glz
    Girl I say its the hormones! I'm the same way! I don't want hubby touchin me or hugging me and kissing me I like turn my head and push him away but I know its the hormones bc before I got pregnant I ALWAYS wanted to cuddle and him to be lovey dovey now I do not!! Lol
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  • BabyBubba123111BabyBubba123111
    I believe its the hormones. I went through this last month with my bf. I COULD NOT STAND HIM. I couldnt stand to look at him. I couldnt stand him touching me and being intimate was just repulsive to me. Once I got to be around other people it took the pressure off of me. He wasnt constantly trying to be around me at that time and I loved it. It was a well needed break. Now weeks later Im back to my normal self. I urge to be around him. Stupid hormones! So maybe its the same for you. Maybe you need a distraction. Hang out with friends or family just so you can take your mind off of him for a few hours. Its no guarantee that it will work. But the way youre feeling right now, it cant hurt
  • Maggy18Maggy18
    @lily_glz: I always wantd him to b all lovey dovey n now it kinda bugs me
  • Maggy18Maggy18
    I wana love him da way I use to cuz I feel lik if I love him da way I did dat thngs would b perfect.. I have him da way I wantd him once bt Idk Wat I can do to love him da same lik I use to
  • lily_glzlily_glz
    Yup that's how I feel. Its like we switched lol I was the lovey dovey one and he was rarely affectionate now its the other way around. Its the hormones they mess everything up! I wouldn't even have sex with him, I recently got my mojo back so he gets it at least 2 times a week lol
  • Maggy18Maggy18
    @lily_glz: Lol I havnt have sex for a while I feel fat n huge n I feel lik he might thnk dat to... n ya I feel lik dat to lik we switched lik now he feels Wat I felt.. can't wait til babys born n ma hormones or back to normal.. how far are u?
  • GregorysMommyGregorysMommy
    I Feel the complete opposite. Before he would always kiss me, hug me, never let me, go! Would give me a million kisses before we said goodbye. And now that I've become pregnant things have changed. He doesn't like holding me, kissing me. I Have to beg him or get mad. I hate it. Sometimes I wanna leave cuz I Feel unloved & unwanted! This is wat goes through my mind all day. But I know its just my hormones! Or at least I THINK it is. We all have our days!
  • Maggy18Maggy18
    @cgm1113: I'm Srry to hear dat.. I wish guys could understand how we feel wen we're pregnant.. I wish it was dem having our babys
  • lily_glzlily_glz
    I am 35 wks!! And I'm with you I can't wait to be normal again! Lol..
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  • GregorysMommyGregorysMommy
    I wish they can too, but that looks like it will Never happen-! :/
  • beebeetybeebeety
    Hey I just hope everything is going the way it should. Hope you and your baby are doing fine.
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