Am I the only one?

edited January 2011 in Pregnant
Is it me or am I the only 1 tht has a bf tht dosent seem interested in my pregnancy? Everytime I try & talk 2 him or show him anything related,he does'nt want 2 talk or he just ignores me. It frustrates me & I feel horriable :(. I know that he loves me & he's scared too but I dnt know what 2 do .

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  • Giv him some time in the beginning I wasn't so interested n my pregnancy at first but with my bf bn so happy n always wanting to rub my stomach n getting ready for the baby I kinda got ovr the way I was feeling
  • Totally know what your going threw its like if u don't talk about the baby or anythin along that line ur relationship is perfect
  • Exactly! I just want him to show me that he is some what interested or some part of him is excited! I feel like I'm going through this alone :(. One thing that really hurt me was when I asked him if he would go 2 my. 1st doc appt. That's coming up & he said no cuz he doesnt like doctors offices.
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  • My boyfriend actually left me the very same day i told him i was pregnant we had a home together and he packed his stuff and left ive since moved out of the home and am moving into a new bigger house next week sometimes things happen for a reason and sometimes its for the better ive realizeed how much he was holding me back from better things now i am more successful in my job and well my whole life :)
  • I've heard that women become mothers when they find out they are pregnant, and men become fathers when they hold the baby for the first time. In my experience, this is mostly accurate. When you start showing, he may become more interested. A young friend of mine wasn't interested in his child until the sonogram, after which he carried the pics around showing them off until baby was born. I have been pregnant so many times, my hubby doesn't get excited at all anymore. Give him some time, he'll come around.
  • 4senough. I know exactly what you mean. It takes guys longer than us.
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