venting

edited February 2011 in Pregnant
I really can't stand my baby daddy when he drinks.I'm so glad my drinking days r over. When we drank together we use to ague a lot now that I've stop I've realized we get along better besides the days my hormones r going hay wire. He continues to drink I don't expect him to stop over night I do appreciate he has cut back how much he comsums. But he gets to a certain point and become such an ass. He gets to the point he cant remember where he puts things n then accuses me of displacing them. He gets to the point he don't give a crap about anything n will smoke butts in the bedroom right before he goes to bed while I'm laying next to him. He knows he shouldn't but does it any ways.

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  • I understand this my bf still drinks but I get mad cause im jealous I just want a margarita
  • I was like that at first becuz we use to drink together everyday when we got out of work. We would buy a 10 pack of 100 proof captains split that between the two and also get 12 pack. Now that I'm pregnant he has cut back but he's still having like 4 nips n a few beers a night, I mean he does respect me an not.do it every night
  • there will be times he wont drink and we r fine all happy there's nights he drinks n we r happy but then there's the nights where hes an ass n those r the nights I don't like.:(
  • Could this be his "way" of coping with the pregnancy?




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  • I'm not sure if I'm clear on Wut u mean by his way on coping with this. I understand he can still drink I appreciate he cut back but he doesn't need to become forgetful n blame things on me. He doesn't need to be rude either. Like I said we r happy when there's no alcohol. There's nights we r happy when he is drinking but it depends how much he drinks
  • Hmmm, I would just try and make sure his behaviour is appropriate by the time yout little one arrives. Drunk daddies are not safe daddies.
  • I'm hoping the same thing...
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