Whos my baby daddy ?

edited January 2011 in Pregnant
Ok well I been with my boyfriend since march 5 2010 and we been having sex alot and he would always cum in me but I eould never get pregnant then july came and we still had sex , but on my birthday which is july 29 my first love who now is my ex called me up to hang out and we kinda had sex and he hadnt had sex since we broke up which was the begining of march so he cummed on my chest but idk if it slipped down then we did it in the shower and this time he did cum in me but he tried to wash it out.. After that I left to my bf house and I got really high and ended up having sex with him and then onseptember I think 10 or AROUND THER I WENT TO THE CLINIC AND FOUND OUT I WAS 2months PREGNANT AND TILL THIS POINT I STILL DONT KNOW WHO THE BABY DADDY IS
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  • When the baby is born you will have to get a paternity test.
  • DNA test is the only way you'll have to find out... sorry girl, but whatever way it comes out do what's best for this baby ;)
  • Yea , hopefully but everyone at my sko say he looks like my ex and I kinda noticed it to on the ultrasound weird ?
  • An early ultrasound like that wouldn't tell you who the baby's going to look like. And a paternity test is the only way to tell who the daddy is. That's what happens when you have more than one sexual partner at a time.
  • Also, smoking pot is very unhealthy for a developing baby. Hope you stopped when you found out you were pregnant.
  • After reading these posts...another girl has a similar story....it makes ne wonder how people have no fears of aids much less bringing a child into a mentality like that. Seriously people. Hate to judge but where is the maturity and self respect
  • the sad things is most of these seem to be from young girls prob still in school. setting their children to follow in their footsteps. yall aren't even giving yourselves a chance for a better life much less ur kids
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  • Gabs, I just went through a pregnancy and I'm on another. SOMETIMES you can tell what the baby is going to look like.
  • Looks don't mean ANYTHING that child could look like anybody up the family tree on either side and u would think it looks like man 1 or man 2 but I'm telling u from experience ive seen it happen dont go off looks and decide u dont need a paternity test
  • Your dating scan should put you in right direction so you can work out when you actually conceived, my last period was 15th of august however my dating scan dates show that i actually conceived on 5 September just work the dates out. and with out sounding disrespectful use a condom when you have more than one sexual partner. good luck.
  • When ppl post on here .. they don't want and SHOULDN'T be judged! They are looking for support and positive remarks! If you read someone's post and don't care for it...think what you want in your head but no need put nasty comments. Set an example .. if you don't have anything nice or positive help then don't say anything at all! We are adults and should act like it!
  • I think its very positive to encourage safe sex. If that message was spread more some of these situations cud be avoided to repeat
  • I was trying to give her advice for the future. not trying to cause offense just think it is important for all of the people concerned in her situation including her unborn that in future these situations can be avoided.
  • To billy910 if u would have put your third comment first and not the others than it would have been NICE! I believe in safe sex but it could be put nicely .
  • A baby deserves responsible parents who will give it the best care. Not only does having multiple partners put the other people in the sexual relationship for std's, but it also puts baby at risk.
  • Billye910. These forums are here for us to help eachother out not to judge one a other. Stupid ass! So what if shes young n in school still shes looking for help n answers! Your the same bitch judging on all other forums like marijuana n pregnancy. If she judgment criticism then shed ask for opinion.
  • Who are you guys to tell her how to live her life and raise her kid she wanted advice and help not your stuck up opinions honestly keep them to yourself and leave it alone I'm 19 years old and pregnant. Just cause your older doesn't mean you know more or are more qualified to be a mother get over your self
  • Ok I had no vulgar language nor name calling and made no comments bout drugs during pregnancy. since when was saying be safe and respect ur body reason for such bad words. I stand by what I say. Safe sex and our youth is clearly getting wrong message and did call het a slut which wud then b passing judgment
  • i did not call her a slut is what shudder been typed. I'm not alone on this so don't get mean with me. protect ourselves ladies cuz a lot worse cud happen than getting blessing of a baby.
  • Look , I understand I made myself look bad but im human . All humans make mistakes , and those of u who respect what im needing help with thanks and god bless u. Im young and from everything ive been through this baby growing inside me has been helping me thru all if the situations ive been thru . I noticed that I made a mistake by putting my biggiest problem out there and the only reason why I wrote it on here is because im scared and I just need help. Im sorry
  • Honey I'm not saying ur a bad person by any means. I just hope u protect urself and if not n a monogamous relationship continue to protect urself now that u have a lil one growing. Did not mean to sound mean but maybe hearing that yr worth that much to protect ur health is needed. Be careful
  • @billye910 look I understand what your tryinq to say and im not guna tell you anything bad or disresoect u cuz that will just make me feel like u . But I wrote this to get help not to be told how dum and slutty I am (apperently to you) I made a mistake u dont need you to bring me down any further than I already am. So thanks and just leave this as it is .
  • You shouldn't have to apologize. The other immature responders should! I admit name calling was low but I don't apologize because the person did pass judgment
  • Thanks @mommysBabygirl , I wish I wereable to meet you to give you my thanks in person
  • Honey I'm not saying ur a bad person by any means. I just hope u protect urself and if not n a monogamous relationship continue to protect urself now that u have a lil one growing. Did not mean to sound mean but maybe hearing that yr worth that much to protect ur health is needed. Be careful
  • I heard u the first time . I havent had sex then alright can u just drop this please im going thru enough
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  • @Girl I'm sure it was hard to ask for help... there are people on here that will help you with the advice and support you need. As hard as it may be, pay attention to THAT and stay positive. There are many young women who've made not so pleasant decisions and come out with the greatest unexpected gift. We all know the repercussions of our decisions:)
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