who is the dad

5weeks_and1day5weeks_and1day
edited January 2011 in Pregnant
Let's say I got my period the 16 of Dec and I gad intercourse the 21 dec which was the same day my period left and we did not use protection but ge did cum inside.. then on the jan 5 I got back with an ex boyfriend and we had intercourse too.
I'm 5 weeks and 1 day
Who is the father help

Comments

  • ViviyaViviya
    It sounds to me like its your ex. Being five weeks really means you conceived around three weeks ago. Since they cannot pinpoint exact conception date, your pregnancy weeks start around your last period.
  • 5weeks_and1day5weeks_and1day
    But we jus got back together 2 weeks ago I'm so confused
  • lacy_b55lacy_b55
    To figure out your weeks of pregnancy u go by the first date of your last period. I looked on a calender and being that u had sex on the last day of your period I determined that it has to be the other guy. Semene can last 3 to 5 days in the vagina so it has to be him.
  • ViviyaViviya
    I don't know, this is sort of confusing. You ovulate a couple of weeks after the first day of your period, so the other guy seems too early, but if you and your ex just got back together two weeks ago, either you can be mis calculating and your only four weeks or it's just not him. I would wait til your first ultrasound to figure it out cos they'll measure the baby and give you a more accurate due date.
  • 5weeks_and1day5weeks_and1day
    Idk.. I'm super scared.. idk wat to do
  • tjscrdtjscrd
    It's more than likely your ex. But you'll never have an exact answer through the internet. DNA test.
  • 5weeks_and1day5weeks_and1day
    Yeah
    this is so stressing
    I really dnt kno how this works
  • ViviyaViviya
    I wish I could help more. :( Truth be told, I'm almost 16 weeks with my ex boyfriend's baby and I'm back with my HUSBAND. Never saw that one coming...I was super upset and scared for a while cos I didn't want to be with my boyfriend anymore but I have two kids already, planed to keep this one, figured my then ex would hate me when he found out and I felt like I had no choice. But he loved me enough to have me even with this baby and is willing to be civil with my ex if he proves he's worth being involved with his child. I'm very lucky to have him.
  • 5weeks_and1day5weeks_and1day
    Wow
    U really are lucky.. Congrats on your new baby..
    I'm super happy that I am.. but I'm only 18 I'm going to college and something insides tells me it has to b the first guy but he has a family already.. my mom wants be to abort, but I want to keep it. Idk wat should I do
  • ViviyaViviya
    Thanks! And I say you do what you want. When my ex and I told his family his mom kept telling me to abort. I have two kids and he has a daughter and his mon thinks whenever one of her kids has a baby it means shes going to have to raise it which is bull. If you want this baby it's you choice and yours alone. You can do it!
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  • yummymummy11yummymummy11
    On your dating scan you will be able to work out your exact date which you conceited. good luck x
  • mphelps07mphelps07
    Your fertile days are usually the week after your period or 10 days ovulation is around a couple days after if u download a period tracker app and put in your lmp it will tell u ur fertile days and ovulation
  • mphelps07mphelps07
    More likely the guy u had intercourse with on the 21st is the father because ur fertile days were between dec 25-30
  • 5weeks_and1day5weeks_and1day
    Thank
    u
  • yummymummy11yummymummy11
    My lmp was august 15th October however on dating scan i found out i actually conceived on September 5th x hope that helps x
  • mphelps07mphelps07
    Dnt stress on it just wait until the baby gets here and get a dna test to know for sure good luck with ur pregnancy
  • 5weeks_and1day5weeks_and1day
    I'm so excited..

  • yummymummy11yummymummy11
    Just read what i wrote and not sure why October is there lol. sorry
  • heatherstarr11heatherstarr11
    Hey girl your doctor can tell when you conceived. They told me nov 29th which was dead on because I flew to cali to see my bf b4 he deployed and that's the day :)
  • 5weeks_and1day5weeks_and1day
    Thanks to everyone u guys have made me feel better and thanks for not judging


  • ViviyaViviya
    :) that's what we're all here for!
  • 5weeks_and1day5weeks_and1day
    :)
  • mama_underpantsmama_underpants
    @ VIVIYA: I'm in the Exact same situation as you.....my only problem is I'm pretty sure its my ex bf and he is a diff race (meaning I'm white, he is black.....and my hubby is white) so now I'm gonna have a mixxed baby, I'm scared what ppl will say about me/us......ugh.
  • ViviyaViviya
    If anyone is rude enough to say anything it's because their own lives are miserable and they have nothing better to do. I wish you lots of luck for sure though! :) Just remember how special baby is.
  • 5weeks_and1day5weeks_and1day
    Thank u very much.. :) I'm super excited.

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