giving birth to my twins on monday... And bd just walked out on me

RossbabiesRossbabies
edited July 2011 in VENT (keep it peaceful!)
So we have been going through so much but I can't believe he just left me three days before his girls r born! I have put up wit his shit for so long. I just wanted my girls to have their daddy in their life. He knows I'm not working how am I going to b able to do this. He has been cheating on me. And every time he talks to me he calls me bitch. I told him if doesn't want to b n a relationship to leave. He said we are not married so he doesn't have any obligation to me. Bye and walked out threw my hospital bag out the window and drove off. Y me? Y now?
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  • jamiesandefurjamiesandefur
    OMG!! im so sorry you have to go through that, I wish there was something anything i can say or do to help you. I can't believe that :( Im so sorry :-((
  • bigmamakbigmamak
    I am so sorry this is happening to you! What a jerk!
  • Jaime77Jaime77
    :( I'm sorry hun, I hope you have strong support from family and friends!
  • survivormommie3survivormommie3
    oh sweetie! while you don't deserve this and he doesn't deserve you or your girls this is a terrible terrible time!!! i wouldn't allow him to be there for their birth for anything. is there anyone to help you with the girls for when you come home? that's a lot to be a first time mom, let alone with twins and trying to heal yourself.
  • ModelBaby1ModelBaby1
    Oh sweetie! I am soo sorry for that happening to you. You do not deserve this especially now! But then again, do you really want a cheating man who belittles you and calls you horrible things to be part of your little angels?? You should look for a good friend or family member for support, and remember that the most important thing now are your babies. Once they are born you can apply for govt assistance. You will make it through without that jerk! God bless and good luck!
  • emyemy
    Im so sorry hun. I know everyone has an opinion, but I think if he call u names an has been cheating on u then u don't need him anyway. Ill keep u in my prayers, I was a single mom for 5 yrs b4 I met the love of my life, its hard but u can do it.
  • cute_pebblescute_pebbles
    Yu dnt deserve that omg , that hurt my heart so bad ! Be strong for yur girls . He is a ass . For cheating , an being disrespectful to u . Wen u dnt do anythig but carry HIS daughters.
  • RossbabiesRossbabies
    @survivormommie3 have no one! He convinced me to move out in the middle of no where. My mom is only going to b in town a couple of days. I'm so lost right now. He just texted me and said wat a relief I finally have my life back.
  • letysfirstletysfirst
    So sorry u r going thru this, u deff dont deserve that, no one does! He is indeed a big ass jerk! I hope something hits him in the had n makes him realize what a big fool idiot he is. Stay strong, I know its easier said than done but u have to b for your 2 girls! brake out of that little box that u might b feeling that u r trapped in n keep going, for yourself n ur babies....
  • OurlittlenuggetOurlittlenugget
    I am so sorry! I imagine you must feel lost and in despair right now, but it really sounds like you might be better off getting away from someone like that. Your little girls don't need that kind of example. None of you deserve that!
  • letysfirstletysfirst
    Head*
  • MythicaMythica
    Take your girls, and go back with your mom when she leaves. Those precious babies don't need an a*hole in their life... I know you're probably feeling lost right about now... but in the end, it might just be for the best, sweetheart. "Have my life back now"?! Who the hell is he kidding? It sounds like he's been doing whatever the hell he wants anyway! Forget him... you deserve SO much better than that! I know it's easier said than done, but right now your girls are your main priority. Get out of there, protect them, and love them with everything you have. Turn your pain into love for them... in the end, it's the best way to cope (I think).
  • RossbabiesRossbabies
    I have been with him for six years and forgave him for all his crap. Now just when the most amazing day of my life is approaching the wants to take my happiness away.
  • newmomma13newmomma13
    stay strong for your babies girl!!!!! hes not worth the risk of your babies being harmed or anything
  • RossbabiesRossbabies
    He also drove away in our only vehicle which is mine by the way so now I have no transportation to the hospital
  • valentinasmommyvalentinasmommy
    Don't let him take your happiness away. Don't.
  • RossbabiesRossbabies
    Im about to report it stolen!
  • MybabeMybabe
    Can you go back with your mom??? Sorry your going through this...
  • RossbabiesRossbabies
    @mybabe I'm sure she would let me go back with her I just Don like the thought of being a burden to anyone
  • ceegsmommy75ceegsmommy75
    What a peice of work!! So sorry! Try to apply for emergency assistance and record all of his disgusting actions for when u take him to court.
  • kailiasmomma05kailiasmomma05
    If the car is in your name i would report it stolen see how he likes those apples.
  • MythicaMythica
    @Rossbabies hun, it's better to go back with your mom than it is to stick around and wait for an a*hole like that!
  • mrsrocketfield1221mrsrocketfield1221
    Call the cops and report your car stolen, if its under your name u can.
    Start looking into resources and help and contact those who care about u to see what your options are.
    know that you can do this... its hard now but will be ok in the end. He really doesn't seem worth it, I'm gonna be honest, and why have that in your life? U deserve love and your children deserve to know what real love is. That is incredibly nasty for him to do that, and in that way, and at this time. Pathedic really and he's not a real man... so let him go! Someone will very worth it! I promise!
  • RossbabiesRossbabies
    @mrsrocketfield1221 just reported it stolen they also mentioned there is a warrant for his arrest! Lets see who comes and gets his ass out certainly wont b me! And hopefully since its Friday by the time he is released we will b gone! Already talked to my mom she said she will leave n the morning instead of Sunday night and pick up a U-Haul so everything will b packed up b4 we even go to the hospital
  • survivormommie3survivormommie3
    aw sweetie I am so glad that part worked out. don't you worry about being a burden. you let your mom love you and help you and you get on your feet and a job or college or whatever is ahead of you. i'm so happy your mom is just as motivated to screw him out of the picture as you!!! and i love that he has a warrant. I have a feeling he won't EVER forget you ;)
  • SmgibbsSmgibbs
    That's good! Go home with ur mom! Tell that ass to kick rocks! I'm glad your mom is coming for you and the babies!
  • DreaMariaDreaMaria
    I can't even imagine going in your shoes! :( However, I'm incredibly happy that you have a plan :) The greatest gift you can give your girls is not a Father, but a confident, assertive, loving mother.
  • DreaMariaDreaMaria
    I can't even imagine going in your shoes! :( However, I'm incredibly happy that you have a plan :) The greatest gift you can give your girls is not a Father, but a confident, assertive, loving mother.
  • RossbabiesRossbabies
    @everyone. Thank you for listening well reading and ur support.
  • DreaMariaDreaMaria
    Sorry for all those posts!
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