sex sex sex

edited August 2011 in Pregnant
Ugh sorry ladies this is probably tmi. Ok so I am 38 weeks 3 days I am having a c section on Aug 9th, like a week from now.
My husband and I have not had sex for a few weeks now. We had an argument the other day and (surprise) he says all I think about is having sex...hello hormones lol but seriously I was so surprised to hear that come out his mouth, so I told yeah I do think about sex constantly and all I want is to have sex with my husband. He says he doesn't care about sex first of all just me and baby, then he goes on to say that it is different now cause I am full term. Wtf does he mean?? He says I am ready to go into labor and he doesn't want us having sex to make contractions start, cause my doctors don't want that. Well I am wanting sex so bad with him I mean I look at him and want to rip his clothes off and feel him close to me, does that make me weird? Is he just scared or maybe he isn't attracted to me anymore. I am so confused and depressed by this. Ugh maybe I need to just go and please myself for a while. I don't know

Comments

  • Does he know you can't have sex for 6 weeks after baby is born?
  • And doesn't sex(specifically his sperm) just soften the cervix? Does it actually cause labor?
  • He does know we won't be able to have sex for 6 weeks after and he said he is just afraid and like I said that it is different I wish I knew what the Hell that means

    Not sure it causes labor but from my understanding it is supposed to help bring it on I could be wrong not sure haven't done research on that

    I just don't know what is going through his mind
  • wow. well i would say i think it's hitting him the change in your body, the anxiety coming closer to your due, the fear he may send you into labor. i know with my husband and my first he was scared to death to hurt me
  • My fianceé would have sex with me a few weeks ago because "You can't have sex so close to term." Soo, I made it a point to ask the doctor about it while he was there. I also explained how I already feel disgusting & the fact that he doesn't want to have sex with me is only making it worse. He's cool about it now, but every time things start to get heated, he has to stop & make sure all the hospital bags are good to go. Lol. Maybe try that?
  • im 32 weeks this week & hubby said no more sex for me lol. im looking at him like r u freakin crazy... n since day one of pregnancy ive always wanted sex lol.
  • Sex can help labor along if you're ready. The sperm softens the cervix and the orgasim makes you contract along with releasing your natural form of potocin
  • I feel u :( I want to rape my man lol
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