I love how EVERYONE knows what's good for me EXCEPT for myself!

NEWSFLASH!: Just because you've had 1 damn kid, you're not some f*cking pregnancy expert, and I WILL damn sure listen to my doctor before I listen to ANYONE!

Long story short, I asked for opinions on Castor Oil on Facebook, because I know a few people have done it. I obviously didn't want medical expertise, or I would've asked my f*cking doctor about it (which I've already done), I wanted personal experiences. Well, apparently if you have 1 kid, you're the Sir Newton of pregnancy, and you know more than ANY doctor. This girl I was friends with wayy back when says 'You know Castor Oil will kill your baby, right?'. I kinda rolled my eyes and said 'I've passed it by my doctor & he doesn't see a problem with me trying it.' I didn't want to be rude about it, ya know. So, she comes back saying 'Well, that doctor is stupid. Why would you even want to do that?' I said 'Because my body is dilating & effacing, I just want to kinda give it a little push to go faster. I'm carrying an almost 8 pound baby, and I'm ready to get this over with.' She's like 'You're exaggerating. There's no way you baby is that big, so pull up your big girl panties, quit acting like you're in so much pain, and go with it.' I cursed her out, and told her when she has a MD or Ph.D, then I'll take her remarks into consideration, until then shut the f*ck up. There's 1 person who knows my body, ME! And, I know when enough is enough, and what my body can take.

Ugh, I HATE stupid b*tches!

Comments

  • What's her evidence that it'll kill your baby? Obviously she has nothing intelligent beyond "your doctor is stupid." Smh.
  • Good response! She's an ass!
  • Oh btw, I took castor oil with my daughter at 40w3d and went into labor that night... and she is a year old, obviously not dead!
  • I hate people like that, they drive me crazy! Someone needs to put her in check!
  • @ashleyz Exactly, she's an idiot.
    @blueberrysmom Yes she is!
  • @pawgio Oh, believe me, she just got checked!
  • Lol she's stupid. Castor oil is edible how is it suppose to kill your baby? Its not freakin motor oil!
  • @bigmamak And, it's been used for years and years. LOL. I can't stand stupid people.
  • edited August 2011
    Good for you! I HATE unsolicited advice!

    @bigmamak: haha! Well put!
  • I have one friend that always tells me what she thinks. If tell her what I am going to do and if she doesn't agree she always feels the need to tell me. It is getting old really fast. I never tell her what to do. If I wanted to know if I was right or wrong I would say that. The worst part is she hates when people do that to her. I don't think she knows how things come across sometimes and thinks she is trying to help but it gets old really fast. I told her the other day that I know what I need to do for my baby and she should do what she feels is right for hers. Agh! I think she got really mad but she will get over it.
  • Yeah that would loss me off too....and how the hell you going to tell me I am over exaggerating or I don't feel what I feel...some people get behind the computer and grow balls!
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