so last night..

edited August 2011 in Pregnant
i tried to have sex with hubby bc we havent had sex for the past 3 months i think.. and were arent gonna be able to for 40 days after birth if im not wrong.. but damn it hurt soooo bad i just couldnt do it it felt like it couldnt fit up there!! is this normal? im 39w 3d btw... i read how having sex helps u to go into labor but how do yall do it dosent it hurt yall?? i just feel sooo sorry for my hubby but he dosent want me to help him out if u no wat i mean tmi.. :-??

Comments

  • When your uterus is stimulated like if you're pregnant or having period cramps you can tighten up a lot. Try being more relaxed next time, take a warm shower before or have longer foreplay time. That helps me a lot.
  • it's normal. sorry about the difficulties. i am probably the biggest i have ever been (pregnancy #3) and its REALLY hard to have sex now @ 36+3
  • and let me tell you afdter your 40 days are up..... It hurts sooo much, like your 1st everrrr!! Feel sooo tight... But after several tries, its all good!! lol
  • @BeAwesome thanks :) i think thats wat i will do next time.
    @survivormommie3 :( gosh i no its so hard! idk but it seems like my belly has ALWAYS been sooo low.
    @betty lol i no my mom told me the same thing! my first time or should i say my first two weeks!! girl it took me 2 weeks to get it on the first time ever.. we would try and it would hurt soo bad i would tell him no maybe tomorrow lol it just hurt sooo bad i feel like suck a cry baby lol

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