alone

rodaroda
edited January 2011 in Pregnant
Hello everyone is there anyone else feeling alone? I just found out I'm pregnant a week ago and needless to say I'm alone. I told the father and he panicked saying I should have an abortion not in the cards my answer. Problem is I am considered high risk. After everything said and done the father was afraid to tell his parents and he's 27 I'm 30. So I did not because of revenge but to get health info now daddy not speaking to me said wasn't my place but he wasn't man up to situation was I wrong?

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  • ginmae78ginmae78
    If you truly contacted his parents for genetic health risks, you absolutely did nothing wrong. You'll get through this tough period and come out on top. Be happy you won't be wasting your energy on that worthless "man" and just take his money honey :) Good luck!
  • mom2be0529mom2be0529
    If you're planning on keeping the baby, they were going to find out anyway. And like you said, it wasn't out of revenge. He's 27 then he needs to man up, he should have at least told them even if ya weren't 100%.. don't beat yourself up, you didn't do anything wrong, you were looking out for the well being of yourself and your child..
  • DanielleDanielle
    I know its hard to feel alone in those kinda situation. My sister went through it alone with her first pregnancy and she got so much love and support from the people that matter. It almost made up for the idiot that couldn't step up to the plate. I think you have made a great decision to keep the bun I'm the oven. This makes you a very strong woman already and I believe in you to make it through this alone... But remember you will never be alone. You now have a great gift and will make it all worth it at the end. Good luck sweetheart! Stay positive for you and the baby. Hey how many weeks are you. I'm 4.5wks.
  • katmc1010katmc1010
    My oldest son's bio father is a dead beat. U may feel alone now but believe me its a blessing in disguise. He has never had anything to do with my son since the moment I told him I was pregnant. I gave him every opp to be a father but he made his choice. When my son was one I met a wonderful man who later became my husband & a great father to my son. He treats my son like his own. My baby is almost 6 & nothing has changed. We also have a 2 yr old son & Im 4 1/2 wks now. Thanks to the bio dad I never had to deal with his drama or his fam. Just dont make the same mistake I did & give your baby his last name. You'll be fine & probably better off. Take it as a blessing.
  • rodaroda
    Thank you everyone it's just hard I know my God will see me through but for whatever reason my heart aches but I know I can't focus on this man but on my son and this baby. I find out Tuesday how far along I am but by this site it says I'm about 5 weeks I thought maybe if he went to doctor appointment with me it would b more real but I will be fine.
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