I want sex :( SMH (tmi)

Janet_2011Janet_2011
edited August 2011 in Pregnant
So... I cant have sex.. I have so much pressure and pelvic pain that
I cant even walk right any more.. I cant even sleep :( and to top it off huby is afraid he is going to hurt me and the baby while having sex.. Smh I tried pleasing my self but.. I am just not the type of person who gets any pleassure out of that.. Anyone has any ideas on what to do?? I really need sex

Comments

  • Mrs4cMrs4c
    Maybe try long slow sex. It can be hot. My baby's head is down and the nurse can feel her head. It freaked my husband out since I'm 32 weeks and now he's hesitant about sex too. I'm also feeling a ton if pressure but that doesn't mean I don't want any. I think I'm a try taking a nice bath with him to help relax and just be gentle. Our tub is big enough for that.
  • beebeetybeebeety
    Well you could go on top of your hubby and ride him very slow.
  • babiescomin2011babiescomin2011
    I'm 34 weeks and sex feels more like a job..no position is comfortable,I get Charlie horses and cramps in my legs and hips,its not fun anymore :(
  • Newbie_MumNewbie_Mum
    The only positions I found comfortable is 1. We. Do it missionary but I put a huge fluffy pillow under my hips, to help support my back n easier for him to dodge the belly or 2. Doggie style is the easiest pposition while pregnant, that's my opinion anyways lol good luck :)
  • txmoorekattxmoorekat
    edited August 2011
    If you know of someone who does Passion Parties, they sell a toy called "Gigi"... I think. It's designed to feel like a vagina, but it can be folded in a way that allows your man to wear it during sex. It'll feel good to him and you, but it'll prevent him from going too deep. I went to a party with a bunch of pregnant women, and the sales lady demo'd this specifically to us.

    Just a thought...
  • monkeymammonkeymam
    I dont know....sometimes I dont wanna sex at all.....I just want an orgams :">....and you can get one really fast if youre in the rigth mood....me and my hubby "play a lot" but he is freaked too...thats why we have sex....without his sex :-P
  • Janet_2011Janet_2011
    Thanks for the advices ladies, I need to try them all lol
  • podgemarinepodgemarine
    Evryone is different on where baby is putting pressure and hips rotating and stuff so I would just try many diff positions .. for me either spooning or me on top. Occasionally I can do other positions he likes but usually I'm on top lol
    If u have a toy that u use to please yourself..have HIM use it on u. I've found when I can fully relax and enjoy that it makes the sex more comfortable :)
  • KareNLoveKareNLove
    I wish I could too but honesty w this pain I feel I won't b able to open my legs lol it sucks cause I really want him so bad but I guess ill wait :( I am 39 weeks w lots of presure n pain ugh ...
  • Janet_2011Janet_2011
    We are on the same boat, ill be 39 weeks tomorrow.. @KareNLove
  • KareNLoveKareNLove
    @Janet_2011 I know if I remember u due a day after me ...I totaly understand u :(
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