my boyfriend changed his mind!

happy2bhappy2b
edited February 2011 in Pregnant
Everythings been going well up until tonight..last night he told me how much he wanted this ...and tonight he told me he didn't know! I'm so upset....he won't give me an answer and ive never felt so hurt ..I can't Belive this...he says he scared ...we are adults he needs to man up and stop changing his mind...Ahhh

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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    Mine did the exact same thing but he completely turned around, mine WAS pushing abortion! Although I m/c he is wanting to try again(: men are babies, they get scared. He'll come around hang in there(:
  • happy2bhappy2b
    At first he pushed abortion and I refused and he came around and was excited and telling everyone..then all of a sudden like that...yes they are babies!
  • mummy2Bmummy2B
    I wouldn't beat myself up about it. Sometimes men worry , there could be a million and one things going on his mind. Like if he can provide for you both , be a good father etc and sometimes it takes a toll. Try and sit down and talk to him about ask why he's feeling the way he does. Hope it works out for you
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  • vette_devilvette_devil
    Just hang in there & be patient, but don't waiver... if he see's you being strong & confident (even if its just for show) he's more likely to follow your lead. He sounds like he's just scared- which I actually think is a GOOD thing b/c it means the baby's life matters to him- and I do think he will come around. Good luck! :)
  • happy2bhappy2b
    Thanks ladies...I hope he does I really want my child to have his/her dad in their life its very important to me...I'm trying to stay strong its hard...I'm just in shock...I was supposed to move in with him tomorrow and he's pulling this the day before...and im worried bc I had a mc before I don't need this stress!
  • vette_devilvette_devil
    Don't take it the wrong way, but he's probably a bit nervous about you moving in, too... all of that together is a lot of stress on anyone!- not just men! Hang in there- we are always here for you to vent, lol! =)
  • natashalynnnatashalynn
    Guys have trouble accepting things they can't see or feel. Once we got out ultrasound done, my bf calmed down a fair bit.
    But all these ladies are right. Men are wimps. Women get pregnant, and it becomes an 'ok I was built to do this, let's rock it, mentality. Men...ha men could never handlle being pregnant!!
  • happy2bhappy2b
    Isn't that the truth....he yells cus I'm to emotional and its pushing him away...geeze he's supposed to b my support and he gets mad...he has Nooo idea what I'm going thru none whatsoever....he needs timw to think...I think he needs to man up and take responsibility for his actions esp. When he said he wanted this !
  • mommyof3boysmommyof3boys
    My second sons father did that and we ended up splitting up and my son is now 2 and has only seen that crap whole of a man 11 times in 2 yrs
  • Mommie_of_2_BoysMommie_of_2_Boys
    My hubby was tryin to push abortion he even left me cuz I wouldn't give in wen he saw how strong I was about it he changed his mind an came hme den on top of he wnted a boy an he got 1 on top of the one we already had so he will come around dnt worry all men go thru their phase
  • happy2bhappy2b
    He came back....thank god
  • gladiator007gladiator007
    I don't know if you have any friends who already have kids that he can talk guy to guy to help calm & ease his mind more. Good luck
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