not sure what to do anymore (npr) Long!

mommy_drmommy_dr
edited August 2011 in VENT (keep it peaceful!)
First wanted to say I am sorry this is so long. To start with a little back ground I am 20 years old and I have 3 kids. One is who is an angel I lost her when I was 15 I was 22 weeks when I went into premature labor and the doctor didn't believe me till it was to late. My middle child is a 2 year old boy and my youngest was born july 18 also a boy. I was 17 when I got pregnant with my first son and tried to make things right and married his father and it lasted a whole 2 weeks due to drugs and anger issues. My youngest son's father came into the picture when my oldest son was about 2 weeks old and was around tll he was about 6 months and we split due to him cheating. We stopped talking for the longest tine and than he came back into my life.I was stupid enough to fall for him again and we slept together and that is when I got pregnant with my youngest. When I first got pregnant he wanted nothing to do with me and went as far as to tell me I wll be a single mom with 2 babies. After he told me that I stopped talking to him and he came around and we got back together cuz I thought he changed...he didn't. He has been talking to a lot of girls nind you I can care less but when he deletes all his history I have issues why delete everythinhg if your not hidding anything? He looks at girls non stop I'm not stupid everyone looks but don't do it around me and deff don't comment about them. He looks at porn non stop. He will text and call other girls over his lunches at work and I won't even get a hi. He is commenting about my weight I'm sorry I'm not 130 (I'm 165ish) like u want. The other day he told me after my friend left that she was hot and if he wasn't with me he would try to get with her! Really? I can't help I have our son a month ago and I'm not a blonde (she is a blonde) like you want. He always wants sex and if he don't get it he is an ass...I'm so tired of being treated this way even his mom and dad are sick of the way he treats me but I want thibgs to work for our family (even though he just works I do everything else.) He don't eveb help with his son

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  • mommy_drmommy_dr
    Since his son has been born he has changed 4 diapers! I just don't know what to do any more!n
  • podgemarinepodgemarine
    Best thing sounds like would be to leave him forever. I know u r tryin to make it work for the kids but if he is really an ass and not a good dad, then it could be a worse environment for the kids.. I'm not there to see ur entire relationship but from what you said, that's my recommendation. My husban
  • podgemarinepodgemarine
    Husbands dad use to be the same with porn and cheating on his wife and his sex talk was giving him a porn, and my husband wants a son next so he could be the father his dad was not.. think about the kids in ur situation cause its all about them now .
  • sunshinelovesunshinelove
    My only words of wisdom I can give in this situation.... Gtfo, the relationship is bad, he is NOT worth it at all. A better guy will come along before you know it, or already has but you haven't noticed. He doesn't sound like a decent father, so, or person really for that matter. What is a family with a dead beat dad like that, and no real love? Don't try to salvage a family like that love, its only going to come back and bite you in the ass. I've seen too many of my dear friends go threw this and I want to smack them up side the head cuz they stay with these pos guys who don't treat them right just to try so salvage what they can of their "family" and lose all their dignity in the process and they are always miserable! A family is a group of people big or small with quarks and misshaps that treat each other right and share an ever lasting love! Its not about who's dna was used in the process! :) just my opinion tho! I hope he will either pull his head out of his bungass or you will move on cuz you deserve wayyyyyyyy better than that!
  • sunshinelovesunshinelove
    I just rd read what I wrote and it sounded kind rude :/ that wasn't my intentions by any means! Sorry love if it comes off that way! I'm severely lacking sleep atm
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