i have no idea what to do. (not preg related)

EmmalouiseEmmalouise
edited August 2011 in Current Events
Ok so please don't judge me. i just need some advise. i fancy the hell out of my neighbour and he feels the same. he came forward first. we are both in same situation. babies and engaged. Lily and lyla are 13days apart. we haven't done anything. just spoke about a few things. my partner doesn't treat me good. i do love him of course. We both no its a no go!! im good friends with his gf and visa versa. we both just click. like you do when you fall in love sort of thing. is it normal to fancy someone while being in a relationship?

Comments

  • mrs_shumrs_shu
    Its normal when you're not feeling appreciated to get those feelings from someone who is giving you attention and flirting. I wouldn't call it falling in love, its more like infatuation and lust.
  • blueberrysmomblueberrysmom
    It's normal. The real question is why do you stay with your partner?
  • Janet_2011Janet_2011
    Is normal mostly in your situation, since your man doesnt treat you right.. But why are you with him ? If you are falling for someone else is obvious that you do not love him.
  • Mylittleman2011Mylittleman2011
    I agree with @mrs_shu to know wether it's real you both would need to break it off with the others involved in the relationships stay friends and get to know each other that way. Right now both being in tough situations your looking to one another to get what is lacking. Good luck and remember all parties involved and if want to peruse then break it off and start new with each other when no others involved. I think I would say you guys might be twitterpatted!!! Lol from bambi :)
  • mommyof3girlsmommyof3girls
    U should consider how ur partner would feel if he found out u felt that way about someone else. Its not fair to him. How would u feel if he did that to u? Should always b honest in relationships.
  • EmmalouiseEmmalouise
    I have tried to tell him how i feel, he just carries on playing on his phone. im with him because he's my babies father and i love hi. i agree i think it is just lust. nothing will ever become of this as i feel it isn't right.
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