just gave my now ex his ring back

steph_s90steph_s90
edited February 2011 in Pregnancy and fathers
We have been on a break for a week cause he needed time to think but he invited me over to see him and of course I missed him and went. We talked for a lil and he kept looking at his phone then making sure I couldn't see so I asked if he was talking to other girls. It took a min to answer but then he finally admitted that he's been talking to not only one but a couple diff girls!!:( its only been a week and were not even broken up it was a break. So I tried so hard to let it go but I couldn't I left when he fell asleep and left the promise ring he gave me last June on his dresser. He obviously doesn't know the meaning and I'm very done I know it hurts now but I'm hoping it gets better:/ any advice ? I'm thinking I'm not going to talk to him anymore at all.

Comments

  • macsmommymacsmommy
    If you go back he is going to keep doing the same thing b/c he thinks you really wont leave. But if you do go back just wait a while and don't talk to him. Make him worry a little bit.
  • LouisesfirstbabaLouisesfirstbaba
    If i was you, wait, let him beg and worry, then you get back together on YOUR terms, make h8m change his number and ask to see his contacts every week, harsh? Not at all this is your life, you want it to run smoothly and be a happy ending, you put down the rules, if he says no, simples hes not trustworthy or worth your upset, good luck hun :)
  • dobiemommadobiemomma
    Ohhh hunny. What a bad spot to be in. But I'm agreeing w the other ladies, its ur life! If u choose to let him back in u do it on ur terms. Don't go calln him. And if u choose that its really over, well guess what?! HIS Loss!!! Stay strong!
  • bummy87bummy87
    If it where me if tell him yuo p/o I think a promise ring I's a cop out for commitment issues if he wants u i2s asn engagement ring but anyway thats me n I'm not very trusting, all the best 2 u
  • yummymummy1yummymummy1
    Sorry to hear this, you sound like a strong woman who knows how she should be treated.
  • yummymummy1yummymummy1
    So don't settle for nothing less
  • lyndsay1983lyndsay1983
    My hubby left me a while ago... childish reasons but I was cut up at first then got back on my feet an guess what! He come crawling back beggin... we've been stronger than ever for over 12 months now... stay strong hun, your the one with all the power just use it wisely :)
  • mommy2be92mommy2be92
    I so agree let it be on your terms because he's gonna wanna treat you right your having his baby duhh =] and totally let us know what happens when he finds out u left and also left the ring
  • casnlesliecasnleslie
    I was in a very similar spot with my now hubby. I waited for one of 2 things. Either I'm going to move on or he's going to realize he needs me more than I do him.
    Just remember a little pain goes a long way. Either you'll hurt and be stronger for it or he will and get his crap together
  • steph_s90steph_s90
    Thanks ladies:) you guys are such a great support group!!! It's easier to be strong and leave him alone for awhile when you have people to talk to!
    @casnleslie he was upset and said oh so thus is how its gonna be and I was like you made it this way. So today is the first day of not answering him or talkin to him, I heard it gets easier after the first week. Hopefully he changes his ways bc I do want him around I just want him to step up
  • VictoriaBVictoriaB
    I went through something similar. I was dating a guy and after he got in my pants, he ditched me. He deleted his MySpace, changed his number, and moved. I saw him a year later and he crawled back. I made the mistake of getting back with him, but if I didn't get back with the jerk, I never would have gotten my crappy job to pay the rent on our super expensive slummy apartment. I met my husband at that job and dumped my crappy ex for him. I've never looked back :) Be strong girl!
  • ElleMarieElleMarie
    Great advice ladies!
  • vette_devilvette_devil
    I think we all reach a point where we get that 'light bulb' moment that a relationship is just not meant to be; with my ex it was when he came to my work (after I had just moved out of our apartment) and had bought me a CD for a song he knew I liked... "I'm moving on" by Rascal Flatts... lol... it was the very song that helped me break up with the deadbeat in the first place! I realized he was clueless about me & why I listened to that song sooo many times, and I never looked back...
    Good luck! You deserve someone who wants you as much as you want them! :)
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