sex question

edited February 2011 in Pregnant
Ok my sex drive comes and goes but I still want it all the time, just more sometimes than others. But my question is: when we had sex this morning and earlier (tmi sorry) it was like I hadn't had sex in a while and my girly parts on the inside hurt the first few strokes or so. I never had that with my boys until late in my pregnancy. Why is this? Also my pelvic area looks like it is puffy as all get out. Anyone else have this or know what it is?

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  • edited February 2011
    That happenends to me too but sorryyyy idk y I wish I did. :/ :/
  • The only time my pelvic got like super swollen was if I hadn't had sex for super long and after I did it got super swollen
  • It's probably related to increased blood volume which makes those parts a little more swollen than usual.
  • @ Kate mine has been like this for over a week now and we have had sex during thus time period. Like I said this stuff happened at the end of my other 2 pregnancies.
  • @txmoorekat I thought about that too, but what makes the inside so tender
  • I am so glad someone asked..i thought it was just me. I was so swollen last week it hurt to walk. I used vaseline on the outer parts so I could move and not make things worse
  • I think that it happens because you are already swollen due to the increased blood volume, then it gets a little more swollen when you are stimulated... When you have sex everything is a little tighter, so there is a little more friction. To me it's kinda like having sex again for the first time... As far as the stretching feeling.
  • Thanks @txmoorekat that make sense. I was wondering about it. I just remember it being in the end not the beginning. Like they say every pregnancy is different.
  • Each pregnancy was different for me too. With my first and third (current) pregnancies it started much earlier than it did with my second.
  • This is my third too. Two lil boys. We are hoping for a girl this time. I had my tubes tied, so I know this baby is meant to be here.
  • I conceived this baby while on the pill. I've always said that even though it wasn't in my plan, I guess there is a bigger plan that's beyond my control. We already have a boy and a girl, and we're getting another girl. How far along are you?
  • Awe... Well I hope you get your girl. Good luck.
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