tell me again how tired YOU are!!

jazzi89jazzi89
edited September 2011 in VENT (keep it peaceful!)
Idk if its just me being in a bitchy mood because of 3 hrs of sleep or if it makes sense. I'm feeding ayva right now and just fuming! I swear if my bf complains about being tired one more fucking time I'm going to flip out on him! Who's the one that feeds ayva every 2 hrs?! ME! Who's the one tht changes her diapers round the clock?! ME! Who's the one that handles a fussy gassy newborn at 2 in the morning?! ME! While he sleeps peacefully all night! He doesn't even wake up to her screams where as I wake up to a squeek! I'm just so sick of this! I haven't gotten more then 4 hrs of sleep a night since I had her. I'm losing my mind! I don't eat I'm constantly exhausted. And he works all weekend and is going to sleep all day all weekend. And I WILL kill him if he complains about being tired this weekend!

Ugh sorry I'm beyond crabby right now and had to get it out.

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  • texasmom3texasmom3
    Wow did I write this??? LOL I totally feel u!!!
  • jazzi89jazzi89
    Ugh! I'm sick of it!
  • jazzi89jazzi89
    It isn't fair, really
  • mommy_drmommy_dr
    Ine does that but I have a 6 week old and a 2 year old and when he gets off and I ask for help I get fhe I worked all day crap! Wth do you call taking care of 2 kids cooking and cleaning is
  • grissy_barriagrissy_barria
    Yup I also know how you feel :/ I always yell at my husband to help but since he is the one that brings home the money (that's his line) he needs to rest I'm like idgaf you also wanted this baby..... I always try to map when she naps if not I will also be running off 3 hrs
  • Spray85Spray85
    Wake him up @ night when she cries :) he may get mad @ first but oh well that's part of being a new daddy! My twins are more than likely gonna be born this weekend and there's no way in Hades I'm doing this by myself lol. Good luck %%- %%-
  • jazzi89jazzi89
    Thnks guys. He gets pissy whn I wake him n he only wrks 3 days a week. I can't nap, whn I get woken up I'm pretty much up fr the day :(
  • Rissalee7Rissalee7
    I seriously think that men should be able to grow boobs and breast feed so they no what its like to get up and take care of the baby. I realize you work all day, and that's why i don't expect much help durning the week but on the weekend you can change a fucking diaper. IT doesnt even have to be a poopy one seriously. and o idont know give her a bath once for me so I can have five minutes to myself. O and by the way I dont hold her 24/7 so when she cries its cuz something is wrong, not that she is use to being held all the time. Ugh sorry i hijacked ur vent
  • jazzi89jazzi89
    Lol totally ok! So far he fed for almost 2 nights n changed mayb ten diapers before her poop even really started. N I have given the two baths shes had as well as the bath shell b getting today ugh im just exhausted
  • beaded_bunnybeaded_bunny
    Oh I feel you and the baby isn't even born yet. My husband is currently out of work but some reason thinks its cool to sit on his ass playing Fallout all-day all-night with a nap or two thrown in for good measure. Yesterday after HE put the toddler in our room to watch tv the toddler demolished some star wars pos. Not surprising in anyway that a 2y/o left unattended would break something important but the husband went on for hours how bad the toddler was *I completely went mother bear on husbands ass btw*
    he better get a job soon or some type of money coming in cause. . .
  • Proudmommy8789Proudmommy8789
    Wow im sorry hun! I cant complain cause hubby wakes up and brings me the baby when she wakes up even if its like 7am. She sleeps 8 plus hours though at 9 weeks
  • Janet_2011Janet_2011
    My hubby works his ass off.. Comes home and cooks plus take care of our two daughters while I sleep but I am still stressed out.. The sleeping and waking every few hours is killing me :( today I have a major headache ..
  • momof22bemomof22be
    I'm sorry mama! Get it out scream if u have to
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  • jazzi89jazzi89
    Ya I don't understand how hecan have the balls to sit there and complain to me! He see how tired I am. I have dark circles under my eyes that his dad always points out. I don't. Have anappetite at all. I'm always sore and hurting. He offers massages that never get given. I'm just worn out and my daughter is only a week old...idk how much longer I can do this
  • 2ndtimearound2ndtimearound
    I'm scared to think how my husband is gonna be when our baby is born. He already acts too tired to help me clean the house...sorry but vacuuming the stairs is really difficult when your 9 months pregnant. I'm just hoping that he falls so deeply in love with his baby girl that he wants to do as much as he can for her....hopeful thinking, long shot but possible.
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